It just dawned to me today how boring my boyfriend actually is. Help?

Question

Sounds kind of rude, but I can't stand the fact that everytime he does talk- it literally puts me to sleep. He doesn't want to do anything but stay around the house, or lets go over to his mom and dads home and hang out there. We've been together for 3 years and I do love him dearly- but what could I do to make him explore the world with me socially and physically?

Answer 1

was going say do this try this but it dont matter every relastionship gets like this at times.....its only the strong ones and the ones truely in love who make it threw many more years of ups and downs....dont give it inless you want to....
but remember you will go threw the same thing with someone else....dont let HONEY MOON stage always be your goal or you will be lonely

if you bored its cause you spend to much time together or you need to get out together more.....

i opt with the go out separtely with your mates as you will find you will have more to talk about that old jealousy.....miss you feeling will come back.....good luck

Answer 2

That's mean. Sometimes people get comfortable and feel like everything is okay, if you don't tell him that you have a desire to do some "exploring", then you obviously don't want him to explore with you and you are just looking for an easy way out. If you do love him dearly and want to keep him in your life, you would tell him how you feel and since it is you that wants change, you should come up with the ideas of what to "explore". You never know, he might surprise you if he just knew what you were yearning for. Try communicating.

Answer 3

this is the time you have to get him out of his shell or it'd be too late if you continue like this. I'm married to one exactly like that and he just can't/won't change at all - I know how terribly boring it can get. But I had to find my own source of "entertainment" and have been doing my own thing most of our lives together, he's just happy staying home when I'm away. The good thing is he doesn't mind it if I left him alone at home for hours or weeks (when I travel).

Answer 4

the best thing you can do is hang out and do some physical activities. like goin to the amusement park or goin to the movies. you jus have to tell him to get off his butt and go do stuff with you cuz ur relationship is suffering

Answer 5

ask him about what he likes to do outside the house and make him do things he likes more often...or if that doesn't work

act like him but worse for a few days and when he asks you why you act this way and he complains then say ...this is my perspective of how you act around me....would you like to discuss onhow you would do things differently??

Answer 6

try to open up the situation with him..tell him what you want..be open..and who knows he might change for the better..don't be afraid to tell him the truth..what is important is that you are honest and talk to him in a best way as possible..if he loves you he will definitely understand you..

Answer 7

Honey, if you are bored, you can TRY to spice things up, but this is a warning. Would you want to be with him the rest of your life if he is boring you now??

These are things to look for.

Answer 8

Get a hobby, if he wants to participate, great! If not, at least you aren't bored.

I go to the gym, now he does too. I love going to Barnes & Nobles, now he does too. etc... Gotta start somewhere.

We scuba dive. He started it with asking about dive classes. We love it.

Answer 9

if you have been with him for 3 years i think you could talk to him and tell him how you feel...tell him you what to do a lil more..well a lot more...lol just talk to him and let him know he may understand

Answer 10

You might try talking to him and letting him know how you feel.