I have a husband who is a marine, and i am worried that he is gay. i notice my husband was always going on gay dating sites. I mean i know it was wrong for looking at his email but he left himself logged on and i just needed to know. I lloked at his profile and he had 50 guys saved and he said he was looking for a man for 1 on 1 sex. Recently he dosn't want to kiss me or spend time with me. We have two lovely boys together. And it seems like he never wants to have sex, and when we do he acts like it kills him, and he never initates sex. I am worried that are marriage is just a cover up for him to be a marine, because you are not allowed to be gay. ANY ADVICE?
2007-01-14 13:45:26 · 11 answers · asked by jessica johnes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It kind of looks that way.
2007-01-14 13:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your husband could just be doing some sort of role-playing or fantasy type thing that doesn't mean anything. But it is strange. Why wouldn't he be doing that with women pretending he's single. It sounds to me like he certainly has bi-sexual tendencies or (for you) worst case scenario is that he is gay and just hasn't come out about it yet because he's afraid. If he's not interested in sex with you and never initiates it anyhow, that's a problem all on its own. Good Luck
2007-01-14 14:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jade D. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to say - it really sounds like he is. however, if all this is a recent thing then there's a good chance he's only just now starting to think he's gay and your marriage was probably legitimate.
My best advice I can give you is go with your gut instinct ( its almost always right) and you'll know. I also suggest you find your husband and bring it up..it's only fair. Do you want to spend the rest of your life married to him without ever knowing? or worse..divorce him to find out your wrong.
2007-01-14 13:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by axe happy juggalo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My EX husband is gay. i ought to actual divorce this guy - he has better than probable been having affairs behind your again with adult adult males. on account that my divorce I actual have stumbled on out that my ex had assorted affairs with adult adult males at the same time as we were married even regardless of the reality that i did not have a clue it replaced into happening. it really is an truly undesirable difficulty that you're in and that i think for you because I actual were there. Get out - there is no thanks to salvage this relationship until eventually you're keen to resign something of your existence and your happiness for him. You should hit upon a guy to love you want you need to be loved. I actual have and it wasn't until eventually I met my husband that i realized in simple terms how undesirable and unloving my first (gay) husband replaced into. i'd be praying for you.
2016-11-23 18:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have a talk with him and ask him straight out if he wants to be with men. There are two children involved in the middle of this and he needs to be totally honest with you. Have a heart to heart talk and tell him that you know he has an interest in men.
It's not fair to you or your children to be living in a situation like this if your husband is not in the relationship for the right reasons.
If you don't feel loved anymore and you don't think this marriage is going anywhere, maybe consider separating for awhile and see how he responds. Good luck to you and your children. :-)
2007-01-14 13:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by duck's attitude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes hes gay has all the signs
you have to decide what you want to do. Divorce?Or not to?That's grounds for divorce!
first of all that's adultery being married and having sex with another person.
2007-01-14 13:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this has just got to be a joke! how could you not see it? it's called being on the down low and it seems to be the thing guys are doing
2007-01-14 13:56:55 · answer #7 · answered by k_princess84 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, guys dont go to gay dating site...
2007-01-14 13:52:22 · answer #8 · answered by believeme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice....be more creative when you're writing fake questions
2007-01-14 13:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's gay.
2007-01-14 13:50:51 · answer #10 · answered by lyndsie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋