How Can I Stop Making all My Girlfriends Cry??

Question

For some stupid reason, I like to make all my girlfriends cry, but then afterward I feel bad and then I try to make up for it.

But I do that with every girl?

Why do I do that? I wish I could stop...

I don't hit them or nothing, I just make them cry by either saying something to make them think I don't like them anymore or that I'm going to break up with them but then I really don't etc. Sometimes I do and I make them beg me to take them back etc...

Answer 1

I Know why! you like it because you want to see her cry for you, and you are make girls to dislike us because girls TRUST less in boy because you make her cry BAD BOY ONE DAY YOU WILL FIND YOUR LOVE AND THEM SHE WILL DO THE SAME YOU DO, AND YOU GO TO BE WHO CRY.

Answer 2

Haha, funny, but a lil wierd, anyways, i have no idea why you have that problem, but if i were you i would think before i do anything, and keep myself from doing it. But that's probably hard. So try this, each day you see your girlfriend, and be nice to her and not make her cry give yourself a reward, not something that costs money, because then you will go broke, maybe sometimes it can cost money, like you can treat yourself to mandarin or something, but mostly just reward yourself by letting yourself do something you wouldn't normally allow yourself to do. Like, i dunno, play video games all day, or watch too much TV, or have too many snacks. Now this sound silly, and it probably won't work, but i don't have much ideas, but maybe another possible solution if that doesn't work, maybe whenever you feel like making them cry, excuse yourself, and take a trip to the washroom or something and make yourself cry (think things that make you emotional(don't cut yourself)) so you can show yourself how it feels, and get it out of your system. Another possible solutuion would be that, each time you want to make her cry, again excuse yourself to the washroom or something and wait there entertaining yourself (so you don't get bored and leave) and wait for the feeling to leave you,and then return. But the easiest possible solution would be to tell your girlfriend (each time you get a new one) your wierd problem, and see what she says, maybe she can come up with ideas of her own, maybe she'll accept that and will know that you are just kidding and not cry, that is your best bet. The only reason i gave you those other ideas is because i know that most guys don't exactly like to talk about their feelings. Good Luck! Oh! Tell us how it goes!

Answer 3

Well, I'll tell ya. A man made me cry not too long ago, but only because he said something that was just so sweet. That's the way to do things. I think you're going for the affection that will result from comforting her afterward, but if you make her cry happy tears, then you'll still get the affection and won't feel so bad about yourself later.

Answer 4

1) Take some time out from the dating game.

2) Work out what the hell is wrong with you. Is it the tears that you think brings you some kind of satisfaction, or the moment of power, the frustration you are bringing out in them? Maybe you like the idea of upsetting them, provoking them into disliking you because you are secretely afraid of commitment, maybe.

3) Start playing online games and try to get this mean 'banter' out of your system on there by putting people down online rather than in real life- no one takes all that stuff seriously (don't be too spiteful though)

4) Maybe date a girl who is tougher with bigger balls than most (not physically). Someone you can have a quickfire cussing game with, but then kiss and make up afterwards with no lasting damage. Rock chicks are pretty tough. Kick yo' *** anyday

:-)

Answer 5

i don't what to say except you need a major touch of reality. i realize that gurls can be needy and annoying but even when you are in an argument you need to let her feel wanted. Oh and if you do break up with a gurl and she begs for you to let her back in her life you two are very wrong for each other. I can also tell you the reason that you do that is that you just act on impulse and you cant always control it and since you cant control it you dont do it on purpose. so if you do that just apoligize if it is the right gurl she will understand

Answer 6

That is cruel. It's like you are pushing her buttons, but to one step further, to the point of tears. You defiantly need to stop. It probably gives you some sort of power that you can do that, maybe you feel more loved by them or something. But it's not healthy. And basically when you see your girlfriend getting upset by something you are saying and you know that you are pushing her to that point on purpose (which you probably are), then stop, it's as simple as that. You know her breaking point, so stop before you see tears. If you can't then go see a doctor about your problem, it might be more complex .

Answer 7

Some guys don't realize that the things they say are mean, even though it may not seem like it to them selves. Before you start with what you are saying, you should say something like I don't know how to say this with out hurting you, or don't take this the wrong way I am not sure how to make this sound right. Try to explain before you say what ever it is that you want to say. You could always say I am not saying this to hurt you feelings or tell them that you have problems saying stuff and that it always comes out wrong. Something along thous lines.

Answer 8

Some kind of compulsive disorder, I think your a sadomasochistic person.. likes to inflict pain but in your case you feel bad, so that really cant describe you then, now can it..

Truthfully i think you need to go and see a doctor for it. Make sure its a psychotherapist, not a regular psychologist.

P.S. You acknowledge that you have a problem and you know that is the first step to recovery..... Good luck..

Answer 9

Um that's really weird. How do you make them cry? If this is a serious question, you might want to talk to a professional about this because it's not normal. Either that, or you're really wanting a man instead and taking it out on the women. :)

Answer 10

there're many reasons why they cry. Simply ask yourself: did you show them off like trophies in front of your buddies? Were you not sensitive to their feelings?

Girls love little surprises that show their men care and think about them constantly. So the next time your girlfriend cry, try writing a handwritten note! It's rare to receive one nowadays. Good Luck!

Answer 11

Probably because you really don't want to stop. I think you likely get some perverted pleasure out of making them cry. I think it is likely a power trip with you. Girls need to run from you.