okay on the 17 of this mounth me and my gurl friend will have been going out 4 mounth, shes crowding me, weve been threw a lot, im 15 yrs, shes 14 yrs, old , we gone threw tons of stuff, we exchange christmas presents, i got her mom a christmas present,
about me: im 15 yo, im white, im a nice guy , build for others, care about everyone, im a lover and a fighter, i have a job at mcdonalds, i make about 150 every two weeks, im a freshman, i have no time for her, i always study and work, and chores, and family, and my time and sleep.
her: 14yyrs, shes mixed, shes white at heart, shes very talented, beautiful, and aims to please, nice, sweet, live far from me, calls alot (m too MUch) shes unique, shes madley in love with me , not A great home life but a good one.
okay im borded with her, she crowdes me , i dont have time for her, i still love her as a friends, weve mad love before, please give me a great IM MEAN GREAT WAY TO TELL HER I ALREADY HAVE ONE , BUT I NEED MORE ADV
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2007-01-14 13:33:53 · 13 answers · asked by triplesixdj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, first off, relax.
Second, be greatful you have a girlfriend, many people out there would kill for what you have.
Third, tell her to give you space, cuz you are going through a tough time (you are 15, that's a tough time, believe it or not). You don't want to break up with her, but once in a while, you'd like to have a "just guys night out" kinda thing, and you need her to keep away for some time in the day, and give you "me space". Tell her this with an extremely calm voice.
2007-01-14 13:38:59 · answer #1 · answered by desanctismarco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok than.. Firstly, don't drag it out. Let her know as soon as you can. and don't expect to be friends after
So, tell he that you need to focuse on more imporant things right now with family and school (now, she is goin' to take this pretty hard.. and may take this as an insault) Then tell her that she was the best thing that ever happenned to you.But, we need some space and time from each other. Your sweet and beautiful but you do live far away and relationships far away dont always work out. I'm sorry. and leave it at that... well in the end tell her the truth how its also her fault for this reason... dont just say its your fault cuz its her fault too.
2007-01-14 13:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by surfin_gal007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing, you are really to young to be dating. You have some much to do in life beside being serious about some girl at such a young age. Tell her at this time in your life, you have decided not to date anyone because it destracts you from your priorities.
Tell her that if she wishes, that you and she may be associates, but right now you need to focus on achieving your goals. You owe no one an explaination but your wife if you are married and your parents. Enjoy life, you don't have to take a risk by going to bed with the females you date. Wait on that special person with whom you want to spend you life with, that both of you may have clean bodies. Also, if you have to have a serious relations, make sure that the person is into the same things you are into or interested in things you would like to do. Take time to no a person before you start dating them. Learn about them so that you can make sound decisions and choices.
2007-01-14 13:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by paris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start out with ; Honey listen, we had some good times but I've got to be honest with you. I think it's time for us to be apart . I'm trying to keep my job and I just can't focus on what I'm doing thinking about you . I think you will be better off without me also. You can focus on your school work. What we had was special and I'll always remember the night we had. I think maybe sometime in the future ,if we were meant to be togather then we will find each other again.
Then just get up and walk away.
2007-01-14 13:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you think you two should just be friends.now i no alot of people use that line but its the truth.like you said u have no time for her and need space.say exactly that to her.say "i think we should just be friends, i care for u alot but i just dont have the time for u,school and work and i want u 2 be happy and i just dont feel its working out i hope u can understand" hopefully she will completley be able to see what you mean by this and u 2 will have a great friendship afterwards.but at first it may take a little time for her because she may be devasted and heartbroken but after a while it will cool down and get back 2 normal:)
2007-01-14 13:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by CPH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all whitey, what's race got to do with anything?
Second, if you want to break up with her, just tell her it's not working out. If she asks for specifics, you can tell her the spark is gone, and you don't love her anymore. If she offers to change for you, tell her that she shouldn't have to change if you were meant to be together.
Make a clean break, delete her number from your phone, and move on. She will hurt for a while and then she'll get over it, it's the way the world works.
2007-01-14 13:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by 006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so your 15 shes 14 & you have made love? well sooo if you are asking how to ask her to tback off nicely say this:
[GFS NAME],
We have been through soo many times together & i love it sooooo much. you are always there for me. But if we want this relationship to stay healthy we need to talk. & im not saying this becasue idont like you im saying this because i love you. im at a very busy time of my life right now. i have school, a job, family and barley any time for us. what im trying to say is i need to figure out what im going to do with my life before i get in a serious relationship. So i say we take a break from each other. & when we are both ready start over again. im not doing this because i wanna. im doing this because i have too because i dont want to hurt you if anything goes wrong. but if you have problems with your life i would love if you told me.
in other words break it to her easily and make her feel like it wasnt her fault & that you need to get your life straight before any commitments. i hope i can help. sorry if its confusing, but its a confusing subject
good luck :)
2007-01-14 13:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by Chevy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well if u like her then tell her and just be really good friends.. if u don't have time for her then there is virtually no point in trying to keep up...so yeah u should tell her... she'll get over it trust me im ur guys age too and im im a girl and preatty much the samr thing has happened to me minus the being madly in love with him thing lol but just tell her it will help
2007-01-14 13:41:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing you can tell her without her heart gettin broken is the truth. just tell her that you dont have time for her.
if u dont want to break up then take a break.
but if u do want to break up then tell her that u jus dont have time for her and that it would be better if you were friends.
2007-01-14 13:39:06 · answer #9 · answered by simi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way would be to do it in person or phone if u hav to (deffinitlety not online), say basically wat u said bout all u been through in how u used to be madly in love but it just doesnt work and that it would be better for both of u if u saw other people, but we still should be friends
hope that helps
2007-01-14 13:38:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋