well i lived up in PA. i have a girl friend there. we have been steady for about a year and a half. well then i moved to Virgina yay me x.x well now shes 6 hours away(im 15 no license). i got really lonley. then i met this guy at school. well he came and swept me off my feet. literally... he picked me up and held me upside down. well he knows that i have a girlfriend and he's cool with that. however, my girlfriend doesnt know that i have a boyfriend. i love them both to death, and i couldnt bear to lose either of them. is it wrong to love more then one person?
2007-01-14 13:32:07 · 20 answers · asked by hentai_guy2001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i lived up in PA. i have a girl friend there. we have been steady for about a year and a half. well then i moved to Virgina yay me x.x well now shes 6 hours away(im 15 no license). i got really lonley. then i met this guy at school. well he came and swept me off my feet. literally... he picked me up and held me upside down. well he knows that i have a girlfriend and he's cool with that. however, my girlfriend doesnt know that i have a boyfriend. i love them both to death, and i couldnt bear to lose either of them. is it wrong to love more then one person?
look just to explain more.
i am a guy. i am bi. i love my boyfriend. and i have been meening to break up with my girlfriend. i just dont have the heart to say it to her. i know that what im doing is selfish and wrong. you think i dont. i stay awake every night thinking about it. for the last 6 weeks i fall asleep at 3 every morning and then wake up at 6am. i dont want to hurt either of them but i want to stay with him not her.
2007-01-14 14:10:54 · update #1
are you a man or a woman? please explain?
2007-01-14 13:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by serena b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong it's just impossible. You don't love either one of them they only person you love is yourself. You're selfish. If you loved your girlfriend no amount of distance would have kept you from her........Your so-called
"boyfriend" is the other guy...........so you're not completely with him. The only way to love someone is with all your heart, which you can't do. You're just entirely too selfish. You need to do them both a favor and leave them alone.
2007-01-14 13:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that its love or is it lust. Your only 15 years old, you dont know what love is and technically no one really does. I dont think its cool to not tell your girlfriend or boyfriend that you have somebody regardless of the distance.
2007-01-14 13:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by NIKFAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have your cake and eat it too.
Besides, long distance relationships never work out. Even if you can drive.
Sounds like young lust to me, love is more than just that. And what you are talking about is cheating.
My friend here is saying what they don't know wont hurt them, it's not true females know when something has happened.
2007-01-14 13:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by liquidblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to love more than one person. But it's wrong to pretend that you only love one. And that's what you're doing by not telling the girl the truth. You're lying to her. You already know in your heart that this is wrong; that's why you asked this question...
2007-01-14 14:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong to love 2 or more people at the same time, but it is wrong to lead people on. And thats what your doing, infact your leading both of them on. You need to choose who you want to be with and let the other one know.
2007-01-14 13:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by Jenns705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The heart has an infinite capacity for love...however you need to tell your girlfriend about your boyfriend. Otherwise you are cheating on her and betraying her trust in you. Would you want someone do do that to you? Hmmmm?
2007-01-14 13:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no license to do anything at age 15. Stop, think and study for a while.
2007-01-14 13:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its nothing wrong to love more than one person, but it will be unfair to your girfriend that your cheating with her. I think you need to think whom you love most and be with.
and most of all you need to decide wheter you wanted to be straight or gay. to lessen the confusion of your own identity.
If you loved them to death, you dont want your girlfriend to suffer humiliation and hurt by keeping secret with her. Relationships start by being faithful not greedy..she also need to find happiness and go on to her life.
2007-01-14 13:47:52 · answer #9 · answered by believeme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is wrong to be in love with two people at the same time.let one go or youll end up losing them both and youll be the only one hurting
2007-01-14 13:37:19 · answer #10 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not wrong to love more than one person, but you need to be honest. It is not fair to your girlfriend to keep this information from her. You should tell her and she can decide what she wants to do.
2007-01-14 13:36:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋