okay me and this guy had sex. he was not a virgin, but i was.
why would he not talk much the first time and be gentle, but then the second time we had sex he was really caring and physically helpful, and treated me like the second time was my first time, and constantly ask me if i was alright, and told me to tell him when to stop?
2007-01-14 13:31:54 · 7 answers · asked by lauren c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats so nice of him... not every guy do that to a first timer... they only cared for their satisfaction ^.~
2007-01-14 13:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a guy for you the first time, he had to be cool and calm so that you do not freak out but the second time .He knows that you are not going to obstruct him so he would be really nice and helpful>
2007-01-14 21:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by sanmi . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it as a compliment honey. The 1st time, he was so turned on by you and excited. Now that he got it out of his system - so to speak, he's going to be gentle.
Now if he was like he was the 1st time you had sex then thats when you need to worry.
2007-01-14 21:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he know that u were a virgin the first time, and after he found out u were a virgin..he just wanted to be more gentle...dont complain most men wouldnt call you back...
2007-01-14 21:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by got2know 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he know the first time was your first time?and if he did it might have been a moral issue for no talking the first time.
2007-01-14 21:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause he probably felt like you were uncomfortable or hurting alot the first time or maybe he just is makin sure he's not hurting you
2007-01-14 21:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by k_princess84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was just a nervous as you were....
2007-01-14 21:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by ksgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋