i was over at my bf and he started pushing me down on the couch i said what the heck and he was all kissing me and i could not resisted so i started kissing him then more happend and i pushed him off and he always talks about having you know what but i dont want to hurt him by breacking up with him but i still love him but i also want to do it with him but i am not sure what do i do?
2007-01-14 13:22:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL girl you obviously are way too young to do anything from the looks and sound of your question.
Just do what YOU feel comfortable with and if he can't respect that then he just wants one thing anyways and isn't the right guy for you.
2007-01-14 13:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it may sound cliche however you need to tell him "If you love me, you will wait until I am ready." A guy who loves you will trust and understand your decision. He will realize you do not feel 100% yet. Also, virginity is a beautiful thing to possess. So just tell him how you feel. If he is not mature enough to handle your response you should reconsider being a couple. By the way, how long have you been with this guy and how old are you?
2007-01-14 21:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by Tera C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set boundries and stick to them. I suspect that there is a chance that if you do have sex with him he may well move on to try to have sex with someone else as well. If he cares for you he will accept that and if not, you haven't lost anything, or anyone important!!
2007-01-14 21:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He needs a wake up call babe. Tell him to respect your boundaries or he's out.
2007-01-14 21:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by amijust1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it and quit being a being a tease or he may take it
2007-01-14 21:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to rape you. Stay away from him.
2007-01-14 21:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋