Well my "boyfriend"(if you read my previous questions you'll see what I'm talking about) had came to my job to buy me some earrings. And it's this very charming guy who I work with at the cash register and we we're both on break and we were sitting togther at the food court and I my jealous "boy-friend" had sat between us and had gotten mad at him and he said that he would beat his *** if he would see him talking to me ever. Then he had got mad at me and he accused me of cheating on him. He's always been jealous but never like this. I broke up with him he threw a temper tamturm and he had broke some of my mom's plates and dishes.Why are some guys are jealous like this? I don't understand. He's always staring at other women out in public and he's even looked down my bosses shrit.
2007-01-14 13:20:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WOW!
I hate to say this baby girl, but you need to let the jerk go, because that is not a good sign, him brakein ur moms dishes, sweetie thats NO NO, next time he may brake you..please leave him along and tell him that u dont want to have anything else to do with him, with his temper thats no good either..these are signs on a woman beater...I know u may love him, but u cant love him if your died...he needs to get some help, and if he says he is sorry, it will do it again...find someone that iwll love you and not be jealous over stupid things, someone that can sit down with u and your co-workers and have a nice chat....Good luck
but you really need to dump his A** for good and dont look back
2007-01-14 13:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by got2know 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy seems selfish. Guys get jealous because they are afraid of losing something or someone that is important to them. For whatever reason this guy is/was not confident that he could keep you. What people do not understand is that jealousy is one of the quickest ways to lose someone. He sounds like a jerk. Stick with the guy at work.
2007-01-14 13:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally thats the case, its always the jealous ones doing all the cheating and things, it doesnt make any sense to me either. He wants to keep you at his side and all times to make sure your not doing anything while he gets to have all the fun. Basically its called "insecurity", but i must say that I am glad that you broke up with him because his jealously could turn into aggression towards you, where he will end up hitting you and thats not cool..
2007-01-14 13:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by NIKFAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men who act jealous like that are immature and more then likely cheating on you. If he's cheating he knows how easy it is and thinks you could be doing it too. Therefore he's paranoid about it. They try and take the heat off them by accusing their gf and putting them on the defensive instead of the offense. He wants to control you by throwing temper tantrums. I'm glad that you broke up with the loser. You need to show him that you're not taking his crap and he doesn't control you. If he wants to be with you he needs to grow up and respect you.
2007-01-14 13:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by *Photo-op* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He seems to really have some control issues and obviously has a very short fuse and a huge temper. I haven't seen your previous questions but he's BAD NEWS!! Run, run far away! Seriously you don't need this. If he is this way now imagine how he will be once you are married!!! RUN. He will only get worse.
2007-01-14 13:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your question -- he's a jerk. Seriously men like that have some issues. He's disrespecting you and he thinks because he's acting like this towards you that you're doing the same thing. He has a guilty conscientous. He'll be alright.
2007-01-14 13:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think i know what you mean, your boyfriend is jealous because he is afraid of losing you. And when he stares at other women? well, he just admire those women. or he just want you to be jealous. Its natural.....he is a man right? so, there are lots of temptations. He will be tired soon.... just have more patience if you really love him.
2007-01-14 13:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by Nanshi M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your lucky day. Move on immediately, or this is what you will face every day the two of you are together. Pay attention to all these negative signs. That boy needs professional help.
2007-01-14 13:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think him breaking dishes was wrong,but men hate to lose things and people that mean something to them.But if you broke up with him,doesn't matter now,does it?
2007-01-14 13:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy means trouble. Any guys who act like that is trouble. Not all guys are like that my fiance isn't but it took me 24 years to find him.
2007-01-14 13:24:42 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋