I'm 15, young I know. My brother is 17, we used to best friends, i could tell him anything and he was the only person i ever felt comfotable around. He dropped out of school last year and started hanging out with some idiot friends, and got into alot of bad sh*t. People at my school know more about my brother than I do. I have tried calling him, he doesn't answer my calls, he moved out and I have no idea where he is neither does my mom. I go and visit him in work and he's a jerk to me. I love him so much and I don't know why he doesn't understand that. Does he even care about me anymore, I mean I didn't even do anything for him not to? I've been so sad about it
2007-01-14 13:15:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He sounds so much like my brother was when we were teens. He mixed with the wrong people too.There isn't anything you can do about him. My brother became worse. When my father died in 1996, he forged dads signature and tried to take all his money and possessions but was stopped. Now my mother and myself have not heard or seen him for 10 years. I am 43 and my bro is nearly 45. He has disowned his own son and hasn't seen him in over 10 years. All you can do is live your life the way you think you should and let him travel his own path if he will not listen to people.
2007-01-14 13:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by kicking_back 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not himeslf right now...im guess some of the bad stuff you said he is in among them is probably drugs? if thats true then that can change a person completly it becomes the only thing that is important. My advice to you is to continue to let your brother know that you care about him, and that if he wants help you can help him get through it and help him find the right people to make him better..unfourtantly there is no easy soultion to a problem like this, it is hard to watch someone you love throw their life away..the only thing you can really do is show him that you care, but whatever you do don't become an emabler for this actions esspeically if drugs are involved don't give him money or do things for him that make this bad lifestyle easy. the only way there will truly be a change is if he wants there to be so try not to beat yourself up it's not your fault and you can only do so much. Best of luck, I hope it all works out for you
2007-01-14 21:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by thereis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be sad you brother chose the path he wants to go.He is proboly feeling guilty and just dsen't know ho to react to you.Still love him but don't get yourself all worked up about his life.Just know you don't want to end up like that and if you do it's a mistake.You still have a long way to go and maybe one day your brother will wake up.
2007-01-14 21:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your brother was still your brother... its just that he was totally invaded by the bad stuff he's doing... i think he loves you too... hes just afraid to show it coz hes a man you know... he thought showing love means showing your weakness...
2007-01-14 21:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this to you but it sounds to me like he has gotten involved with drugs and doesn't want you to know.
2007-01-16 14:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by ctsnowmiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋