ugh... i feel so stupid for talking to my ex again... he says he still loves he says he misses me. he tells me hes going to be with me forever but he doesn't tell me why (at least the real reason) for the "break" and he doesn't ask me back out... what is that suppose to mean? What should I do? I'm desperately trying to move on but it's like maybe there is still a chance..?
2007-01-14 13:06:35 · 13 answers · asked by Fashionista 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is there a slight hope of desperation in your heart?
maby he cant be alone and doesn't want to move on?.....
If you are really trying to move on then you should put a stop to it all immediately....
But ultimately this cannot be answered by a stranger.. you must think on what you feel..Is he worth the hassle? Do my friends like him? (ok that shouldn't come into it. but it gives you an idea if he is worth it from their judgments..)
In all honesty from what you typed you really are not interested your just talking to him out of loneliness or dare to say it.. desperation (im so sorry).. Pester him for the reason.. maby he wanted 1 last fling before he settled with the one he loves?
Really sorry i could go on and on... Please consult the ones that know you both for their oppinions...
Great help huh lol
2007-01-14 13:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by psychoticclock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute... are you saying he has offered a reason for the break that you've rejected? How do you know it isn't the real reason?
Maybe he isn't asking you out again because you aren't believing what he says, which might happen to be the truth, and he wants you but not if you bring irrational hostility with you. Think about it.
Why do I say this? Because it's the kind of thing one of my ex-gf's pulled on me all the time. Oh,and my roommate's girlfriend does stuff like that to him, too, and although she's playing sometimes, it's for real other times.
2007-01-14 13:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by John D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be good to have a total honesty session with him so you can make a final decision about the relationship. It would be better than leaving it part of your life's romantic unknowns. It does sound like a dead relationship, and the session might convince you of the final truth. Now is a good time for all the questions and answers to come out, and leave no reason untouched. Make it clear this is the relationships last chance, and unfullfilled answers will be left in the dustbin.
2007-01-14 13:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are stupid! He keeps you around cuz he knows he can. He needs something to fall back on in case he can't find something else. A plan B. And you are Plan B. Leave him alone. Move on. He's playing you like a fiddle and you just don't see it. I know you wanna believe what he is saying, but it's all lies. If he truly loved you and wanted to be with you, he would be there now. Don't answer his calls, avoid him. Get over him. Guys just don't get it sometimes. You are gonna have to be mean to him, let him know you are not gonna be his Plan B.
2007-01-14 13:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could unload him asap. If he likes yet another female and she or he him, WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? genuine love does not play video games or have wandering eyes, it relatively is devoted and not common paintings. you are able to desire to work out this as a pink flag, a deal breaker, strike 3. Your youthful, i'm guessing, you are able to desire to no longer additionally be pondering a intense relationship that is going to reason you lack of self belief. have enjoyable, do no longer grow to be overly invested throughout the time of this, WHAT? you won't be in a position to flirt? flow on, the writing is on the wall and it spells situation. Do your self a desire and decrease the guy unfastened, regardless of if it is destined to be, it relatively is going to run it relatively is course and he would be back. yet why you are able to take him back purely you are able to answer.
2016-12-13 06:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by bruhn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your trying to move on then you must.... talking to him only brings back the fondness you have for him. it sounds like he broke up with you. so it's going to be hard, but stay the course, hang out with your girlfriends, and use their support. but not the ones that say bad things about him, the ones that say good things about you!.... you can move on... "there ARE more fish in the sea!"
2007-01-14 13:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by nite_cap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain, I want to be with someone who doesn't want me anymore! And my life is so completely turned inside out. I never know if I'm coming or going!
2007-01-14 13:12:15 · answer #7 · answered by Adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is trying to spare your feelings. Move on .. this relationship is over
2007-01-14 13:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by That_ blue_ eyed_ Irish_ lass 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likly you will never be with one guy in your whole life. move on and try to find the one your truley ment for.
2007-01-14 13:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by guitarhero213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you KNOW that he is just leading you on. Stop being a victim and move on!
2007-01-14 13:10:10 · answer #10 · answered by woundbyte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋