I just broke up with my girlfriend 2 days ago because I finally gave up on her changing some of her ways. She likes to drink too much and isn't very motivated where I am very motivated to get ahead in life and retire early. Earlier today her sister stopped by and basically told me that my ex told her about our sex life and now she wants to experience it for herself. I know I will never get back together with my ex and I also know I will never date her sister but would it be terribly wrong to have sex with her a few times? She is very beatiful and has a killer body. I know she just wants to get down and dirty but I'm afraid if I nail her a few times she is going to want more. I am very blessed in the manhood area and I know much of her desire is to see just how blessed I am. SO. . . as two consenting adults would it be bad to schtoop her or am I a bastard for even considering it. I care about my ex as a person but just can't be with her anymore!! I can tell her sister
2007-01-14
12:58:11
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is going to be relentless in her pursuit of a roll in the hay with me. I know my ex would be hurt if I nailed her sister but I am a red blooded male who has urges as well. What should I do?
2007-01-14
12:59:05 ·
update #1
Thank you for all the advice. . . I have to admit however that I have already had a threesome with the sister and her roomate from college. . . my first. . . and it was awesome!!!! I knocked them both out and was ready for more. . . . they want this to become a regular get together and I'm going to oblige them. I've been too much of a goody two shoes my whole life and now I'm just going to do it. . do it. . DO IT!!!!
2007-01-14
13:08:42 ·
update #2
And for the record. . . I do not want revenge on my ex. . .. I broke it off. . . I wish her well. . . . we're just too different.
2007-01-14
13:10:42 ·
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Do it. It seems like the ultimate revenge. Heck, maybe your ex will get jealous enough to change her ways and get back with you.
2007-01-14 13:07:27
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answered by need a boy 2
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answered by ? 3
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If you care anything at all about your ex then you should stay away from her sister... nothing good will come out of that situation and the chances of her just now knowing about what your sex is like zero to none, sisters always share things and chances are she's gonna want something more with you and thought that now that you and her sister are broke up that this would be the opportunity for her to step in... she will tell her sister if you reject her after words and she's highly jealous already so I could only imagine the s.hit that your gonna have to deal with after... I know that she is not the last woman in the world so you should find someone else :) :) :)
2007-01-14 13:08:46
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answered by Anonymous
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You seem to be quite sure that IF you were to sleep with her, it wouldn't happen more than a few times at most. It isn't worth it.
There are plenty of other women with 'killer' bodies. Stop taking shortcuts.
You do not want to find yourself in problems in the future, and you know very well how much room for complication you'll leave if you go through with this. We don't need to go down the list.
Keep your life simple.
You're going to end up doing what you want to do. But the best thing would be to simply find another woman outside of your ex's circle.
2007-01-14 13:13:48
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answered by ebonii_cuteee 5
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Hey man, I wouldn't bother.
You may have split from your ex, but those kinds of wounds take a while to heal. If she finds out you screwed her sister, it will devastate her. Surely you have enough feelings for your ex, not to put her through that?
I'm sure this woman's a cutie, but there are loads of cute girls out there you can have one-night stands with without any emotional baggage.
Remember- this quick roll-in-the-hay with the sister may be good as a one off, but it could land you in some very hot water. You don't want to go getting yourself a reputation as a self-obsessed, ignorant dick-orientated piece of sh*t.
Have a cold shower. Get some closure from your girlfriend. If anything, feel some pity for your girlfriend for 1) just losing you, her boyfriend and 2) having a dirty go-er for a sister.
Ultimately, you gotta do what you gotta do, but given how motivated you are, hopefully you're motivated enough to do the right thing!
2007-01-14 13:07:01
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answered by midsojo 4
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I can see how that is tempting, but you're asking for some bad Karma in your life. There is a possibility that feelings by you or her could develop (quite natural with sex). But you wouldn't have a very positive relationship because your ex would have hard feelings with her sister and with you, if she finds out. If your ex is telling her sister about how you are in bed, then you better believe that have good communication and her sister might feel guilty (they always do) down the road and tell her anyways.
You might as well go out in style, with your head high, leave it alone.
2007-01-14 13:07:00
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answered by SharpGuy 6
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The more you think about it, it will be inevitable. Lust is one of the sins, but knowing that, we may commit the sin anyway. Ask yourself would it be worth it. You could drive the two sisters apart. Or the sister could be trampy and give you something you can't get rid of. If your that well endowed, you won't have a problem just finding another girl to shag. There are many more with killer bodies. I can't and won't judge you, but if you do it, she will keep coming back and you will have to live with whatever feelings you have afterward. Sometimes it's just not worth it. And she may suck in bed, and I don't mean that literally. LOL It's up to you dude.
2007-01-14 13:07:31
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answered by kayjay 4
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Honestly you can fullfill your sexual urges other ways rather than having sex with your ex's sister. Do you really want that on your consience forever dude? Its not worth it in my opinion. Even though you would never get back with your ex, it still would hurt her. And perhaps put yourself in your ex girlfriend's postion. If I were you I would stay away from the sister and meet people your own way, there are lots of people out there; why limit yourself to ex's family members? Sex is just sex sometimes, but the consequences can easily be avoided.
2007-01-14 13:05:24
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answered by Kismet 3
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For starters I love your honesty with what is going on with you. Truthfully if you slept with her sister after only being an ex for 2 days it would look like your trying to make your ex jealous. It makes me wonder how much did you really put into the relationship to even consider sleeping with her sister and so soon. Personally I dont think its a good idea to sleep with her but your an adult and your going to do what you want to do anyway, just make sure you think this through first.
I wish my sister would try to sleep with my ex, I would kick her *** and then come and hunt him down.
2007-01-14 13:07:02
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answered by NIKFAY 2
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I wouldn't do it.
Sound's a bit suspicious to me.
How do you know it wouldn't bother your ex?
My sister would have been very pissed at me for doing it.
There is this thing between sisters who care, and we just don't do that sort of stuff, even if we are curious.
Besides you are a man, you shouldn't have any problem finding someone to have as a **** buddy, unless their is something wrong with you.
2007-01-14 13:09:52
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answered by liquidblue 3
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If you do have a thing with the sister, you, as someone who is motivated, will come to regret it I am sure. remember that if the sister is that sexually motivated you might either end up with someone who is not going to let you go or even perhaps a std depending upon how careful she has been in the past.
2007-01-14 13:06:38
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answered by Al B 7
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