My little sister who's 12 ALWAYS gets in my closet, draws, and under my bed. She listens to my phone conversations 24/7!!! When she leaves for school I see her wearing my clothes, shoes, jelewery, and makeup. She even sneaks in my car when I go on dates!!! I CAN"T WAIT TELL I GO ON TO COLLEGE!!! Only one more year. But intell then what am I suppose to do?????
2007-01-14 12:51:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I know it's frustrating, but look at it from this perspective
She adores you and wants to emulate you as much as she can.
In the interim, have you discussed your feelings with her, or with a parent, or all of you sitting down together. At 12, she should know how much she appreciates her privacy, and might understand that you feel the same way.
You're in a difficult position to enforce your desires, no matter how reasonable they might be. But your parent(s) should certainly step in when you and your sis cannot work out something that resolves the critical situation.... Good luck!
2007-01-18 07:23:59 · answer #1 · answered by winefp2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't have an older sister but if i had one i know I'd drive her crazy. Don't take it too much to heart, it is normal for siblings to act that way to the younger ones.Family always drive each other crazy...as you get older you appreciate each other more and value their company . I know i was a big sister that said those words, honestly i could never imagine living with out my Lil brother and sister.
2016-05-24 03:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why i use to do to it my sister because i was the youngest because i thought she had the coolest stuff and she was so pretty than i , she got to go on date and do and all this cool things , So i wanted to be just like her a big girl . now i have my own daughter two youngest and one younger daughter and she does it to them too them the youngest only have one more year before they go to college in another states, The youngest daughter is just copying her sisters because she wants to be a big girl like them, How my oldest daughter deal with it ,is love her anyways she wont be in this stage very long and so they just make time for her once week to make her feel they love her too but she needs to stay out of their things and to respect their stuff
and they just talk to her that sometime big girl need their own time too , she only does it maybe once in while because my daughter make their own clothes so they make the same thing for their little sister but smaller that what works for my daughters i hope this help with your problem
2007-01-22 05:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your little sister idolizes you and just wants to be like you because you are "perfect" in her eyes. My little sister was the same way and I would get so annoyed. I lost her 1999 when she was 40 years old. We were best friends but even at 40, she was still trying to emulate me. I'd give anything to have her still with me. So, just be patient with your little sister and she'll grow up to be a better person because she had such a great role model - meaning YOU. :-)
2007-01-20 08:39:37 · answer #4 · answered by Jade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grew up with two younger sisters.
Get used to it.
After I got an apartment, my sister came in to borrow some shoes, while I was sleeping.
She couldn't decide so toke a box, and left me with out a pair to leave the apartment.
We still laugh about it, today.
The first pair of socks, I used from buy to wore out, was an event. My husband thought I was nuts, but he was an only child.
These days will be the days you will laugh about and tease her about when your older.
2007-01-19 17:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by Pat B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of you letting it drive you crazy it should make you feel good cause your sister looks up to you. She thinks you are so cool that she wants to be just like you. She could be doing far worse that would really drive you crazy but she admires things about you and she wants to be just like you.
2007-01-21 10:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're the big sister act like it don't allow her to stay all in your space like that but at the same time you need to spend time with her and do some girl stuff with her and maybe when you want some privacy she'll give it to you respectfully
2007-01-22 11:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by DEBO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should put a lock on your door. Get a cellphone so she won't be able to click in on your conversations and lock your car door.
2007-01-21 15:13:35 · answer #8 · answered by Angel D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love every min.of it she loves u and admire u and she looks up to u to her u are cute,cool and cant wait to be like u so enjoy spend a day with her take to the movies or something do girly things with her she will love you even more let her know now im going out with my friends ill be back and dont go in my things but if you do please put them back ok,,,What if something happen to her you will miss her driving you crazy,,so Try Please to enjoy her
2007-01-18 15:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by keepitreal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but a lock on your door to where you have the ONLY key
2007-01-14 13:04:52 · answer #10 · answered by Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋