i want to know what is the best type of condom that will be comfortable to use because i tried serve type but it just doesn't seem to be working out. Also, what else or position you can be in to have satisfication when it comes to...you "know" what.
For the reason being is that i seem to unsatisfy my gf and since i don't have much experience i would like to ask you to help me out. I'm sure any one of you would know more then i do.
This means so much to me THank YOU!!
Thank you
2007-01-14 12:43:57 · 12 answers · asked by smile 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like Lifestyles condoms because they have a "pocket" at the tip which allows the head of your penis to keep it's shape, which feels good when thrusting in and out, especially just around the vaginal opening.
When it comes to pleasing your partner, remember that she also needs to know how to please herself. There's a lot pressure on men to have to perform, but knowing your own body is the first step to finding satisfaction. You should talk with her to find out what feels good to her. Does she masturbate? If so, what does she do to reach climax? Also, you might want to just spend some time together taking it slow and trying different things and, most importantly, communicating. Be open to either of you saying, "let's try this..." or "a bit faster" "a bit slower." And that's not just for intercourse, but also foreplay.
There's no one magical position, my friend. You'll just have to take some time to find out what works best for her and also what works best for you. For instance, with my partner, the position that she likes best, I can't climax with. But once she's satisfied, then we switch it up a bit. It's not a big deal. Like I said, some time, some communication, and some caring, and you'll be on your way to having wonderful sex.
2007-01-14 13:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how are you so sure she's completely dissatisfied with your performance? The best way for you to find out how to please her is to ask her what she likes. Every woman favours different things/positions.
As for protection, personally, I think you might wanna try 'studded' or 'ribbed' condoms. Just read the packages to find them. They've got little studs on them that are supposed to maximize pleasure for the woman.
Good luck to you...
(Also, no disrespect, but the noun you're looking for is "Pleasure". No such word as 'pleasurement' in English. In other languages, possibly.)
2007-01-14 21:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by ebonii_cuteee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she wants, it is a simple question. She should be able to tell you. Most women will get more pleasure from parts of your body that don't need condoms, like your hand or your tounge.
2007-01-14 20:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by carolyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually use trojan. You can get the "extra pleasure" kind if you really want to get into it. But a good position would probably be the girl riding on you
2007-01-14 20:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can have sex! It takes a hero to wait for marriage. Remember if she is having sex with you, who else will she be having sex with later.
If she makes you wait, then the foundation you both make now, will answer your question everyday of your future together.
2007-01-14 20:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by oe542 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try the ones with stimulaters on them,also if she open to it experiment with some toys,they seem to work for both partners,so not only is she satisfied so are you
2007-01-14 20:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the two of you need to go to a sex store and explore things like French ticklers and perhaps a copy of the kama sutra!!
2007-01-14 20:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose clean women..Know their history...
Do not be promiscuous..
Make sure they are on the pill..
Make sure you are clean...
I do not use a condom...
2007-01-14 20:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you freak! get married first! than worrie about that stuff! gosh emo freak!
2007-01-14 20:49:14 · answer #9 · answered by kutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go w/ the answer from 'laugh' its what my bf & I use too :) I also prefer straddlin' my guy.
2007-01-14 21:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋