Ok i went out with this guy like the whole summer but he dumped me like 30 times during the whole time and i dumped him once bcause i found out he cheated on me twice but i am like madly in love with him but he dumped me for this other girl and then she dumped him so he asked me and this other chick out at the same time and i was gonna say yes but she beat me and so like she dumped him and he wants me back and i still like him but im not sure if i wanna go out w/ him
2007-01-14 12:32:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur his back up girl do not go out with him once a cheater always a cheater
2007-01-14 12:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by tessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your crazy girl!! don't waste your time with some jerk like that.you are WAY better then that.if he really liked you he would have came to you first not any one else.don't be a fool girl.if that boy cant see that you are good for him then he DOES NOT deserve you.tell him,you are not going to be with him just because every one else dumped him.if he really cared about you then he should have been with you and no one else and he shouldn't have cheated on you.don't let him use you and then dump you again.you are better then that.now here is your chance to leave him in his dust. :) i would tell him in front of everyone that is around that he is not worth wasting your time over and you can do way better then him.make him feel bad for what he did.he deserves it.and then go find someone better then him.you can do it.i have faith in you.girl,don't let any guy bring you down.because if he does then he's not worth it.best of luck to you!
2007-01-14 20:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by pippy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curious as to how much time has passed since he cheated...
It's been my experience that if they cheat once, they'll do it again. I understand your love for him, but it's just as important that he love you as much and is willing to earn your trust back. I'm not sure that asking two girls out at the same time is the best start in the trust area, but as long as he was honest and didn't try to hide it. Just be careful, nothing is harder to heal than a broken heart...
Good Luck!!
2007-01-14 20:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by ejsheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately I would have to say "No". I know you feel that you Love him, but believe me, with the track record he currently has it will only lead to a dead end for you.
He is destined to repeat his actions of this summer and, even though it will hurt now, going back out with him would certainly lead to more heartache for you in the future. Do yourself a favor and move on...it will be the best thing for "you" in the long run! Good luck!
2007-01-14 20:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by boxer_1_2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your heart and do whatever you think is the right thing to do. if you feel you want him go for it, it you feel he will just hurt you again do go out with him. although it sounds like he hurt one before everyone deserves a second chance. maybe you could be just friends and take it slow then once you build up his trust again take it from there. I just want you to remember that it is his loss if he doesn't want you and it will be something he will regret. just remember that your heart doen't lie
2007-01-14 20:39:40 · answer #5 · answered by Answerfinder1360 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose him he is a cheater your experiencing the kicked dog syndrom as we call it you can kick a dog he will run off 5 min later you can call him he wil come running wagging his tail like nothing ever happend your obsessing get over it
2007-01-14 20:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by saint 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he is so not worth it. It seems to me that he is using you as a fallback girl. You can do much better!
2007-01-14 20:36:42 · answer #7 · answered by *Shaun* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, he doesn't understand the meaning of "steady relationship"..
2007-01-14 20:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by krneel128 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO LEAVE THAT FOOL AND FIND A GOOD MAN, THIS GUY IS NOTHING HE IS A LOSER
2007-01-14 20:36:18 · answer #9 · answered by Jaylynn's mommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. He is a LOSER
2007-01-14 20:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋