Okay, so . I have a boy friend.. and things are okay.. and were not really taking things seriously.. just going out and having a good time. But just recently, I was talking to a guy that ive liked for a long time, and i confessed about how much i liked him because it was driving me crazy and found out that he likes me too :]
the only trouble is is that he is my brothers friend, and my brother would never EVER allow it. ever. he would probably slowly loose the guy that i like as a friend.. and they are really close. and i dont want the guy i like to loose his best friends.. ya kno? so anyways.. i feel bad for my boyfriend because i told someother guy that i like him.. but at the same time.. i cant go out with the other guy.. so should i stay wtih my b/f or brake up with him? Its not really a serious relationship + i really like the other guy but nothing can happen :[
PLEASE HELP ME!! :[
2007-01-14 12:23:58 · 7 answers · asked by tennischicka1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, i forgot. the guy that i liked also said that we could have a "secret relationship" but i think that would be unfair to both of us? right? i would wana announce it to everyone :]
2007-01-14 12:40:06 · update #1
Well you can't really help what your heart feels.... If you really like the other guy, then maybe you should give it a go and break up with the guy your with now. If your brother really loves you and he is a true friend to this guy that you like, then he will understand, and he will not stand in your way. I'm sorry if this doesn't really help you but this is the best help that I can give you right now. Sorry!
2007-01-14 12:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should talk to your brother about it before you make any changes in either relationship. explain to him how you and his best friend like eachother. tell him why you're asking him first, which would be because you don't want to ruin hin friendship. maybe he will change his mind about not allowing you to date him. besides, why should he tell you who you can and can't date? as for your boyfriend, i think you should break up with him if your brother ends up changing his mind. if not, stay together then. i hope this helps.
2007-01-14 20:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to assess the situation and arrive at a decision on what you really want. It seems to me this boyfriend of yours is just someone to hang out with, and you don't really love him, so if this is the case, cut him loose, and go for what you really want.
2007-01-14 20:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa girl you got some major drama...listen to your heart...
do you want to hurt your brother and mess up a friendship for your wants....
or do you want to keep a relationship alive and keep a friendship going strong...
lastly if you cant live without this man talk to your bro he may understand
2007-01-14 20:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Chlobo♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this can go two ways:
1. you break up with him, and go out with what's his face, and all that you hope for comes true, AND, you're bro kills you for being mean...
2. you stay with him and nothing will ever become of you and that one guy...
make a choice...
2007-01-14 20:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by [CH] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** your boyfriend see if u like it then if not brake up with him 4 other reasons and screw your brother b a little selfish
2007-01-14 20:30:48 · answer #6 · answered by cool guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont no that is a tough one
2007-01-14 20:30:59 · answer #7 · answered by lovedat13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋