He doesent sleep around, doesent even threat to. But when i decline him for sex, he gets mad and pouts. Nothing violent, but it is very agrivating for me. What can I do that wont cause another giant fight?
2007-01-14 12:21:41 · 18 answers · asked by abeautifulmind083 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has two hands, doesn't he? Sex is one part of a relationship. I consider it an important part. Many times the amount of sex the two partners want is uneven at best. (probably most of the time) "Pouting" because he can't have sex is childish and emotionally immature. You guys need to discuss having a compromise on the sex. People compromise all the time in relationships on all kinds of issues. It's possible you two will never "get together" on the amount-of-sex issue, but I think he needs to at least see it from your vantage point, and you need to see it from his. But this pouting stuff is just lame - immature, and lame.
2007-01-14 12:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mine used to do that all of the time. Don't make him feel bad for wanting it more than you, and tell him not to get so mad at you for not having the same sex drive. You will have to repeat this over and over before it sinks in. It worked for me. Now we have sex more since he isn't such a nag. I don't run in the other direction and I can decline 2 or 3 times in a row and not get any B.S.
2007-01-14 20:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jenalyn 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some men just have a higher testosterone level than others and they will want sex more. Maybe you should try to explain to him that you just aren't a sexually motivated as he is but make sure you tell him that it is not due to finding him unattractive or unarousing, it's just that you don't need or want sex as much as he does. Make sure you let him know that this is a problem for him (in the relationship) but that you don't feel as though he is taking your feelings on the matter into consideration.
2007-01-14 20:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by Rhonda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. It should be okay for either of you to decline if you do not desire sex. His childish reaction is an attempt to manipulate you. Let him know it's unacceptable and makes him less desirable, not more.
2007-01-14 20:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give me a break mal, women think about sex as much as men. but he sounds like an immature person when it comes to sex. you have him addicted, you're gonna have to satisfy him more often then not, or else he will go somewhere else to get his. satisfy him with some oral now and then, and get the favor back.
2007-01-14 20:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by dmo_87 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really need to talk to him. Its really important before something really happens. Yes , he might enjoy it but he needs to understand and respect you when you said no. Maybe you should look it up but some men and even some women are addict to sex. you should look up on it and see if its your boyfriend.
2007-01-14 20:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by JENNIFER C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well did you know men think about sex atleast 5 times a day they like it alot
2007-01-14 20:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by iluvashleytisdale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a boyfriend that is not acting like a spoilt brat.
2007-01-14 20:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him....girls should also be respected...if you dont want, he shouldnt get mad coz you also have the right to say no...if he forces you, no way, leave him, youre better off with someone who will respect you and your dignity...
relationship is not about sex...it's love and respect...
2007-01-14 20:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by fashion時尚嬰孩玩偶doll 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave now before you end up marrying him. Cause it'll only get worse.
2007-01-14 20:27:24 · answer #10 · answered by Stephanie W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋