all my friends think i should tell the guy i like that i like him but im scared he wont like me back or he will start ignoring me. I like him alot and im scared i've never been scared to tell a guy i like him before but when ever we talk i get all nervous and my heart starts beating really fast and i dont know what to say. Do you think i should tell him?
This is what he does, does it seem like he likes me?He talks to other girls alot but he barley talks to me and when we do talk he gets nervous.How come? He stares at me alot but when i look at him he looks away. He always makes the class laugh but when he's trying to he looks at me.
2007-01-14 11:29:23 · 12 answers · asked by *Glitta n' Gloss* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he does like you, but he is shy, just like you are.
I think you should flirt with him, maybe tease him a little, just to make him more comfortable.
Don't tell him how much you like him. That's a good thing to do, after you're in a relationship, but it can scare people off, if you do it too quickly. The idea is to get him to pursue you. If you need to give him a little encouragement, fine, but don't do all the chasing yourself.
2007-01-14 12:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't come out and actually tell him you like him, that can sometimes scare guys off. Yeah, your friends always say to do that, but have THEY done that?
Instead, just start being frindly to him. Make small talk in the hallway, just tell him what you did over the weekend, talk to him like you would to your friends. If he likes you, he will be friends back, and if not, you haven't embarrased yourself. If he doesn't respond to your frindliness right away though, give it a little but. He might be shy.
2007-01-14 19:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by CassieKay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, how old are you both? just to get an idea
yes, it looks like he likes you or at least finds you a bit interesting. of course, you might be seeing some things the way you want to see them.
i would say go for it and tell him you like him, alone of course. only in cases when he's your best friend or someone you couldn't lose as a friend, i would stop to consider the situation. but stop wondering and don't waste more of your time. if he doesn't like you it's not the end of the world and by next week you'll find someone else interesting
2007-01-14 19:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by m3726 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could tell him you like him, but it depends on what he says to you, I am sure that you being nervous is all part of the deal, but it does not seem like he is ready for a relationship, if he is talking to the girls more then he is talking to you. Although he could be shy. Do't be surprised if he tell you he is not ready to date, there are other fish in the sea.
2007-01-14 19:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you, according to what he does. Talking to other girls more makes him feel more sexually secure, cuz they obviously talk back. However the one he ⥠is u. i mean, most guys don't get nervous when talking to a girl!
You should talk to him more before u tell him u like him. Why?
cuz if someone u didn't really know asked u out wouldn't that be awkward? so talk to him more! and bc he likes you , there is nothing to lose.
good luck!!!
2007-01-14 19:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should go for it.
If he starts ignoring you then you wont miss out on much, because you said you hardly ever talk. If he is a nice guy and he says no he wont ignore you, he'll be your friend.
to me it sounds like you two have a connection, and if you dont ask you'll never find out!
Good luck, go get that guy!
2007-01-14 19:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
IS SOOO OBIUS hge likes u gurlie go for it imean u got nutin to lose bervous around chu gutl u pt him in ur hand tell him how u feel
2007-01-17 23:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by lAdY ClUMSY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him... ask him out... life is hard enough dont make it harder with something like this. have fun with it. do nice things small gifts see how he reacts when you give it to him.
sounds like he likes you.but if he doesnt there are so many boys that will make your heart flutter and that will like you.
but i think he does
2007-01-22 14:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by teapea102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to grow up and start having real relationships. When will women learn?
2007-01-14 19:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you might be in love so ask him out movie ballgame ect. he will probally like it you being straight forward
2007-01-14 19:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋