I find it hard to move on w/my thoughts, I dated this guy for a while & we broke up a few days ago. I know he's no good for me & I can see no future w/him.
But, he's all I know...and I don't feel like hitting the scene looking for a new mate or even a new friend. I'm trying to put all my effort into college, but I find it hard to focus at times.........
I know in time I will be alright, but I need strength to get over this hump. Any suggestions, I would love to pick up the phone & call a friend but....I don't feel like being the gossip back at home (about my drama) or here at school (by talking to someone). I'm trying to keep a happy face, but often find myself alone crying........
2007-01-14 11:26:12 · 6 answers · asked by Spotlight 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go ahead and cry out your hurt. Can't talk to anyone around? Talk to God. Just do not sell yourself short because you are afraid of finding someone new.
Sometimes we need to be alone with ourselves to heal and grow. And your break up may be a sign that you are growing. So go head and cry girl. Let it out and then get back to focusing on yourself, your growth, and education.
Be encouraged boo.
2007-01-14 11:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you start thinking of him, stop yourself immediately. This is called self discipline and you'll get over it a lot quicker than if you just wait till you forget
2007-01-14 19:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch, it seems like your being pretty tough about this, to me. try to call some one, even if you have to lie that its okay and every thing. and try to find someone who wont gossip about you and talk to them. but you went on the famous "yahoo awnsers" so thats a start. good luck, girl.
2007-01-14 19:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by bugsandtweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh I'm srry i dont kno wat 2 tell u. nothing can happen unless u pick up the phone and call a friend. u dont hav 2 tlk about things goin on with u. u just need 2 tlk. hope u get happier.
2007-01-14 19:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by *~Choco~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray to God, he can help you through this. He's there for you any time. And whatever you tell him will never be repeated and you don't have to pretend with him.
2007-01-14 19:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get new hobby. go out. work out. get hot.
2007-01-14 19:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by james b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋