yes i was drunk. dont even remember what he looks like... only made out, nothing more. the thing is... it wasnt too discreet, as in, we were doing it in the open and there were random people coming up to us and taking pictures on their camera phones(?!) by the way i am a girl....so im not really sure why these people were taking pictures but im just concerned because a lot of people saw us including friends that i really respect and whatnot... do you think i lost my friends' respect? or would they cut me some slack and say 'well...she was drunk'. i know it depends on the person but how would you respond, in general?
2007-01-14 11:25:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd probably tease you to no end...but wouldn't think any worse of you. I think almost everybody's done something similar in their past, and would be hypocrites to say otherwise. Besides, as long as you had fun and were safe...what's the problem?
2007-01-14 11:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Kim K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. The first time that happens your friends will understand. Do it again, however, and you can get a nickname like "The Hussy"...Which is my current name when I go to a party to drink. And even though I stopped myself from making out with random guys(I don't drink as much now, so I can control myself), they still call me "The Hussy".
So be careful. Once is okay. Twice...alright..But three times and you need to watch out. The names will start.
If you just want to get tipsy (not total ****-faced) and makeout, whatever..Just be discreet. People talk. You shouldn't want them to.
Really, I should be telling you to have some respect for yourself and not be so easy. Just make sure your friends keep an eye on you (not to the staring point, but you know). You don't want to end up doing anything more than making-out. They'll know when you need to stop and when you need to go home.
Have fun.
PS: The pictures...Everyone likes to have evidence of people doing **** when they're drunk.
2007-01-14 11:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by Kitty Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on your age. If you're out of high school just having fun in college it's fun to be a little slutty every once in a while. It's not like you were having sex in front of everyone. You'll be fine. If you think you'll lose your friends respect just ask them. Tell them you did a stupid thing and jokingly tell them it may happen again so be aware. You will all have a big laugh. Go with the flow girl!
2007-01-14 11:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is one of the first times that you've gotten drunk and made out with a random guy out in the open at a party, then I'd say you'll be fine. But be wary, people will judge.
2007-01-14 11:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by Delvala 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Making out in public is not a very good thing, especially if you arein public which will give people a photo opportunity. If they were friends you knew, then yeah they might say they think it is cool or that you should not have done it, even if it is a fling then you should probably do it in a private setting, whether or not you are comfortable doing in front of people or not. It just makes more sense so people don't spread rumors.
2007-01-14 11:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well sepaking from experience..(scarily like the exact same one haha) they might bug you for a while, but dont worry too much about it... they will forget by the time the next party comes around and it will become one of those hey guys do you you remember when things they laugh about every so often.. best thing is to laugh with them then they will take it as casually as you. Especially since you were drinking its not a big deal.
2007-01-14 11:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should never use drinking as in excuse. But everyone does get a grace period. If your friends lost respect for you then they were never your friends in the first place to judge you.
Teenagers can be so cruel you times.
2007-01-14 11:33:14 · answer #7 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your friends do not like you because you did something stupid while DRUNK, then find new friends. I do not see the problem here. The guy was not someones boyfriend and you two were not "doing it."
Please, name one person that hasn't done anything they normally would not do sober, while intoxicated.
I would like to add, that you need to look at the pictures on www.collegehumor.com, trust me...it will make you feel a lot better. Comparatively, you're a saint sweetie.
2007-01-14 11:31:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with YEO, only I'm not a man... It's not like you had sex w/ him, but you might as well get it over with now and have sex with every guy you meet, because that sounds like the kind of life you're going to live.
Drunk or not, it's not like you haven't watched tv and seen that girls & guys do stupid stuff when they're drunk, it's probably not going to be the last time for you anyway.
2007-01-14 11:33:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well I am also an avid party makeouter (if that's a word). I am a guy by the way. If I was you I wouldn't give a fu@# what the others think. You have to live your own life.
2007-01-14 11:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by donny2knives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋