me and my husband move to moreno valley were his ex girlfriend live we see alot of her she trying to ease her way back in and she suppose to have a baby by him. he told me that his name is not on the birth certifcate and she was having sex with other people. but before we got together he was claiming her child. but now as he tell me alot about her. having sex with his mother boyfriend and some of his homeboys. i told him before we even try to do something for him we need a blood test because she might been playin him. am i doing the right thing. if you want to ask me more question go to sweetnesrj4@yahoo.com
2007-01-14 11:24:51 · 11 answers · asked by raquel j 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
honey i think u have a right to know specially if you two are together.. but be careful her tryin to ease her way in could mean trouble also.. all i gots to say is demand one and keep demanding.. dont pocket out any money to her or feel sorry for her till you know the truth.. dont let her be a homewrecker either.. good luck.
2007-01-14 11:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jillian A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How far long is she? not that it rather concerns, what does is which you have been waiting to spend something of your existence with somebody after purely 6 months and now are crying upset considering you have found out some thing approximately him that doesn't greater healthful into your plans. in case you have been so waiting to make a life-time dedication to the guy, you will desire to be waiting to stand by your guy via the drama of coping with the mummy of his baby. (And who's to assert there will be drama as long as he remains modern-day on his baby help. Or greater advantageous yet, why not postpone the marriage and get to be responsive to your better half..and his previous...a sprint greater advantageous. Now returned to how far alongside is she? Did she merely confront him that she's 6, 7, or 8 months pregnant or approximately to drop any day now or has he primary for a at a similar time as and merely now getting around to telling you? the former potential that there may be different "little" issues your destiny husband is retaining from you! As for the toddler mama drama...have your fiance touch an lawyer to ascertain first paternity, then if needed his parental rights, to establish visitation and baby help money. For you, in case you come to a decision to bypass forward with the marriage, do not enable your earnings be secure along with his - shop separate financial company bills, report married submitting separate tax types, yet be arranged to help him along with his toddler.
2016-10-19 23:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are doing the right thing for you and your husband. Why put up with the drama when you can end it with a simple test. By getting the test it will be like setting you and your husband free, because there will be no more wondering. If he is the father than you guys should go to court about visitation and stuff so as to keep confrontation to a minimal. Don't worry your making the right decision.
2007-01-14 11:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by Gabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that's the same thing I'm going thru but the only thing about this girl who so called have a child by him not trying to do a DNA test so he not even sweating he just not doing anything for this child unless he gets a DNA test plus they were broke up when she got pregnant and she became a prostitute the reason she said she did was because he left her now what kind of reason is that?
2007-01-14 11:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his name is not on hte birth certificate a judge will order her to have a DNA test...a blood test is not needed. All they do is swab the inside of the child's and the possible father's mouths. I would not give her a penny until the DNA test comes back.
2007-01-14 11:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing have your husband take a paternity test this way you can be certain that the child could be his.
2007-01-18 11:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by beenie 21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is very wise advice. Women are better liars and sneaker than men. She may be doing it to get back him and the new woman life if she is not pregnant. Some women take rejection harder than others and thus harbor resent and anger for much longer.
2007-01-14 12:52:32 · answer #7 · answered by isbros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is wisdom. I think all men should have blood tests to make sure the baby is theirs. Some women pick the nicest guy and want him to be the daddy no matter who the daddy really is==if they know who it is...
2007-01-14 11:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would for sure have a paternity test done before paying that girl any money...Sounds like she's a hoe, to me.
2007-01-14 12:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by Denise D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
blood test would be the best thing to do, i guess.. cuase it's true , you never know... she could be playin him
2007-01-14 11:31:40 · answer #10 · answered by Disturbed in the mind 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋