Ok I love my boyriend and I trust him and all but earlier today i was emailing him and then he disapeared, which is unusuall for him. I emailed him a couple of minuets ago asking where he went and he said he was at the mall. He went with his ex girlfriend and 4 other people. Two guys and two girls, plus he didn't invite me, should i be upset over this or just forget about it?
2007-01-14 11:22:06 · 8 answers · asked by darkfallenangel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He said the only reason he didn't tell me was cause he was being lazy. what do I do?
2007-01-14 11:49:26 · update #1
It does seem very inconsiderate. What you should do is tell him how it made you feel and ask that next time he is put in this type of situation could he please invite you.
Now I don't know how old you or your boyfriend are, which could make a difference in how you all think. It would also make a difference if this is a typical scenario for him to go to the mall with the guys and it just happened to include two other girls.
Out of respect for you though, after you tell him how you feel, he should have the decensy to tell you in the future, or he will continue to be disrespectful in the future and you're best to cut your loses now. Good luck.
2007-01-14 11:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anna Hennings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be upset. If it wasn't a big deal or nothing was going on then he should have told you. He should have told you anyway just out of respect. No..I take that back. He shouldn't have went with his ex gf out of respect! It's not always about trust...It's about being someone's fool.
2007-01-14 19:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could give him a bit of time to see but if he cared for you he would have invited you and not gone to a mall with an ex girl friend. you can do better than someone like that!!
2007-01-14 19:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to be upset, just remember to give him the benefit of the dought. Not everything is how it looks. Trust you man. Be direct and ask him whats on your mind, when he answers, believe him until he proves himself wrong.....Always believe your man unless you have proof other wise.
2007-01-14 19:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by shekelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If an ex girlfriend is involved and he didn't even tell you about it, then it can't be a good sign. Talk to him about it and see what's up.
2007-01-14 19:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by Love_Forever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not a matter of if you should be upset, the situation has made you upset otherwise you would not be here asking. It is how you confront him that is important let him know your concerns and take it from there
2007-01-14 19:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by ponitail 55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him and ask why he didn't invite you. Find out who else he went with and talk to one of them I don't wanna say he is cheating on you, but don't completely ignore that possibility.
2007-01-14 19:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by *KK* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id be so mad!!!how do you know he isnt seeing his ex again?you have the rite to go with him,especially if his ex is there!im not judging anyone,but still
2007-01-14 19:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by Sk8er Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋