how do you know when you find the right person for you i really feel i have i just want some more info i suppose its different for everyone and most people will say you will just know its weird but any feed back would be great :)
2007-01-14 11:20:45 · 8 answers · asked by liam_jones_10_10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Before you commit yourself to one person exclusively, I think it's important to spend some time, dating several people. That gives you the chance to observe the positive and negative qualities of each one.
Being committed to one person tends to blind us to that person's faults. That's good after you're married, but not so good, when you're making a selection.
I also the best time to consult a marriage counselor, is when you're thinking about getting married, instead of waiting until your marriage is on the rocks, which is the more common approach.
2007-01-14 11:29:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there. Well for me (cause as u say everyone is different) i knew i found the right one when we went on our first date! We had been talking on the phone previously for about a week so we had actually made a mental and spiritual connection. When i saw him for the first time i knew the physical was there then later came the sexual. Now my husband and i are still meeting on the same level mental, spiritual, physical and sexual but now there is the extra factor which is the bond. I just know we are meant to be together in this lifetime, there was too much serindipity for fate not to be involved somehow. But you will never find love if you never try.
2007-01-14 12:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by kelstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isnt that one person - its just the best person that fits all your likes and wants and needs and you both get along good and when you argue - its how you deal with it - etc....you will have lots of people in your life - dont look for the "one" - just have a good time and do the activities you want to do - never forget to take care of you.
2007-01-14 11:42:46 · answer #3 · answered by Handbag Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you have heard this before, but I have been married for 14 years. We are seperated but I have been dating this guy for 2 years. I met him after the seperation. I love this guy way more then I did my husband. I never thought I would love someone more then my husband but I do. If you see yourself thinking about the future and you can't wait to see this person or just talking to this person on the phone gives you butterflies then she's the one.
2007-01-14 11:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know when you find the right one for you because it is a feeling that you get. You feel like your on a cloud everytime you are with the person. When you spend every waking moment thinking and talking about the person you are in love.
2007-01-14 11:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how the persom treats you. Question is are you happy ? Does that person makes you feel like you worth it ? Does that person makes you feel beautifull ?Making you happy for one minute and suffering for years doesn't count.
2007-01-14 11:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know when you dont have to ask total strangers on the internet. Thats how I knew
2007-01-14 11:24:54 · answer #7 · answered by Brian D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts.
2007-01-14 11:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by chuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋