2007-01-14 11:18:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a very bad one that is being used to justify something he knows he shouldn't have done. at this point you are dealing with someone who is telling you that he isn't trustworthy , since if he thought you were cheating on him he should have confronted you instead of doing what he really wanted to do in the first place but couldn't .
weather you dump him is your choice, but if he cheated on you once for no real reason other than he wanted to, odds are he will do it again.
it sucks that that happened, hope this helps with your situation.
2007-01-14 11:27:11 · answer #1 · answered by chris r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The kind of excuse someone with low self-esteem would use, unless you were cheating on them, then it's a good excuse. Also, I think I should add that apparently your significant other is hornier than they let on.
2007-01-14 19:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by donny2knives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just an excuse for his cheatings.
2007-01-14 19:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is another way of saying " I realy don't care for you that much but as long as you put up with me, I won't leave" A person who cares and thinks you were cheating would talk to you about it or try to do something to fix the situation, not go out and cheat. you need to dump him before he gives you a gift like STD or the likes!!
2007-01-14 19:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is so leam you sould first be a man and come right out and ask her then make up your mind from their ; because what if she has not but by then it is already done then you are the person in the wrong and you will have to come clean then yyou have to find out weather the other can still under stand why you did what you did (good luck)
2007-01-14 19:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is called a preemptive affair and is considered relationship legal due to a temporary insanity plea. If you were not really in to the relationship, go ahead and take this opportunity to bail. If you were hoping for a LTR you can spank the offender with a rolled up newspaper and attempt better communication.
2007-01-14 19:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
did you do anything to give him reason? its not just the act of cheating, but the suggestion that could drive someone crazy to do the unthinkable. we need to take a look at ourselves before we can judge others. cheating usually occurs when there is something lacking in a relationship. it could be his fault, but its both you're fault in terms of clearing the air.
2007-01-14 19:23:29 · answer #7 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like a poor excuse to me, also a little insecurity and lies.
2007-01-14 19:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by Shannon G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No excuse
2007-01-14 19:22:41 · answer #9 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oops i got busted so now i have to flip it around so u think its ur fault kind of excuse. men are pathetic! not all but most of them
2007-01-14 19:27:34 · answer #10 · answered by snowflakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋