Sometimes I hear people saying that men find beautiful women intimidating. By this I mean that they may be very much attracted to them, but nevertheless won't approach them because of fear of being rejected.
I find it difficult to believe, and I wonder what people think about this. Do you think it is true?
2007-01-14 11:17:56 · 15 answers · asked by iamalion 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't find them intimidating as such.
However, I might assume that there is no point asking a total babe out because she might not be interested because she has so many other guys interested in her.
I guess a lot of guys would be reluctant like that.
2007-01-14 11:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's true. I am very beautiful and intelligent and also polite and kind and I am rejected all the time by plain men. Gorgeous, intelligent and good men don't reject me because a pearl can recognise another one, but they very rare. Of course all the ugly and stupid will try to put down a beautiful person by jealosy and frustration
2013-12-28 05:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy once told me I was intimidating cos I was so attractive. (This was a while ago!) But he was one of those guys who was really superficial (and a cheat). I thought it was just a chat up line, cos if I was sooooo intimidating he would never have come and spoke to me. And I really dont believe that Im soooo beautiful that he couldnt resist. lol
2007-01-14 11:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by jeanimus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes, you`re quite right. Lots of men find me intimidating. They think I`m out of their league because of my wondrous beauty, successful career as a managing director, my mansion in Surrey and my Bentley and Rolls. {:o)
2007-01-14 11:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by The BudMiester 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have gone out with very goodlooking men sometimes and theirs not been a problem, when i was younger and i was on the pretty side, so they were no threat cos i had loads of men fancy me still do only older, too much fuss is made of looks i think. everyone is georgous to someone who says who is goodlooking and who is not. some goodlooking people are conceited though, but a person can be conceited about anything if in their nature.to be.
2007-01-14 11:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by denise g 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1. Hoor mentioned in the Qur’an The word hoor occurs in the Qur’an in no less than four different places: (1) In Surah Dukhan chapter 44, verse 54 "Moreover, We shall join them to companions With beautiful, big and lustrous eyes." [Al-Qur’an 44:54] (2) In Surah Al-Tur chapter 52 verse 20 "...And We shall join them to companions, with beautiful, big and lustrous eyes." [Al-Qur’an 52:20] (3) In Surah Rahman chapter 55 verse 72 "Companions restrained (as to their glances), in goodly pavilions." [Al-Qur’an 55:72] (4) In Surah Al-Waqiah chapter 56 verse 22 "And (there will be) companions with beautiful, big and lustrous eyes." [Al-Qur’an 56:22] 2. Hoor Translated as Beautiful Maidens Many translators of the Qur’an have translated the word hoor as ‘beautiful maidens’ especially in the Urdu translations. If hoor means ‘beautiful maidens’ or girls, then they are meant only for the men. Hence, what will the women get if they enter Paradise? 3. Meaning of Hoor The word hoor is actually the plural of ahwar (applicable to man) and of haura (applicable to woman) and signifies a person having eyes characterized by hauar a special quality bestowed upon a good soul, male or female in paradise and it denotes the intense whiteness of the white part of the spiritual eye. The Qur’an describes in several other verses that in paradise you will have azwaj which mean a pair or spouse or companion which means you will have spouses or companions pure and holy (mutaharratun means pure, holy). "But give glad tidings to those who believe and work righteousness, that their portion is gardens, beneath which rivers flow. Every time they are fed with fruits therefrom, they say: "Why, this is what we were fed with before", for they are given things in similitude; and they have therein companions pure (and holy); and they abide therein (forever)". [Al-Qur’an 2:25] "But those who believe and do deeds of righteousness, We shall soon admit to Gardens, with rivers flowing beneath – their eternal home; therein shall they have companions pure and holy: we shall admit them to shades, cool and ever deepening". [Al-Qur’an 4:57] Therefore the word hoor has no specific gender. Mohammad Asad has translated the word hoor as spouse and Abdullah Yusuf Ali as companion. Therefore according to some scholars a man in paradise will have a hoor that is a beautiful maiden with beautiful big and lustrous eyes and a woman in paradise will get a man with beautiful big and lustrous eyes. 4. Women will get something exceptional in Paradise Many scholars say that in context, the word hoor used in the Qur’an refers only to ladies since gents are addressed. A reply that would be accepted by all types of people would rather be the answer given in the Hadith when a similar question was posed that if a man gets a hoor, a beautiful Maiden in Paradise, then what will the women get? The reply was that the women will get that which the heart has not desired for, the ear hasn’t heard off and the eye hasn’t seen, indicating that even the women will get something exceptional in Paradise.
2016-03-28 21:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by Virginia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is true, i know because unfortunately i am that tipe of man,for some people it might be fear of rejection but for others its something much deeper, one bad relationship can really nock ya and if you leave it to long be for looking for Someone else you lose all the confidence you had
2007-01-14 11:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by yostevearino 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lol yeah i tink its got sumthin to do with the attitude. I mean some rlly pretty girls say the they are better for the rest of the world...i find it hard to believe either lol....
2007-01-14 11:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by Ally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i believe it. how many times have you heard women say "he wouldnt be interested in someone like me" quite a bit id asay. why wouldnt men feel the same.
2007-01-14 11:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by lizard 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes i believe thats true.
wish i was one of those beautiful women, unfortunately im not,lol,
2007-01-14 11:29:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋