All my mom does is be mean. I am not over exgerationing! My brother flipped me off so I told on him so she started yelling at me. She tells me that if he does something bad to tell on him but when I do she yells at me and calls me names. All of my friends say that they hate my mom cause she is so unfair. I was on the phone with my friend the other day and my mom started yelling and cussing at me and made my friend hang up. She always talks about people. And since I told on my brother I am not aloud to go to somewhere that I had planned on. She had already told me I could go. Why does she act like this and how can I deal with it?
2007-01-14 11:12:51 · 16 answers · asked by actresst22 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Maybe your mom has some problems she is dealing with that you don't about. Did you ever think of that? Maybe she doesn't need your selfish whining attitude right now.
2007-01-14 11:16:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sweety - sounds like you mom has some issues! Is your mom going thru some hard times at the moment that may be stressing her out? Or has she been like this all the time? I dont really think she should be so hard on you, and really she shouldnt be swearing and yelling at you. I had a pretty rough childhood myself so I can sympathise with you, and being a mother of 4 now I can also see from a moms point of veiw. But still there is no excuse for abuse. Have you got an Aunty or relies you can talk to about this, or are there childrens hotlines you can ring and speak to they might be able to give you advice or counselling? Your mom might need some help herself as well if she is having troubles.... Hang in there, I know its not easy..
2007-01-14 19:29:24 · answer #2 · answered by Eve M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that before you know it you will meet a great guy and will get married and stop living under her roof. My fiance has been dealing with a mother like this for years, its hard on her but I just keep reminding her of how great its going to be when we are married and living together.
Just think of the future, that helps alot. Try to keep out of your mothers way, act like you are living with a roomate that you dont really talk too. Just keep to yourself dont involve her in your life
2007-01-14 19:18:39 · answer #3 · answered by Brian D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur mom could just be going through a phase like everyone else does
i would jus keep it cool wid her and have someone else by my mother-ly figure...find someone else you can talk to about ur problems and just stay low from ur mom for a lil while
she could jus b having a tough time at wrk or something and there is always the possible PMS stage lol
2007-01-14 19:19:44 · answer #4 · answered by 123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Parents arent always right and they are not without fault. Think about your moms life and figure out what she may have lacked growing up - love her and try to see her point. If there is no point then just understand she may not know better.
2007-01-14 19:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by Handbag Lady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only option you have is to try to explain to her how you feel (which probably won't do any good). Life is sometimes just unfair. You have to try to deal with it until you can take care of yourself.
2007-01-14 19:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by shellese2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is really as bad as you say, she may not listen to you. You might want to have someone talk to her for you. Well, I don't know, she might just be really stressed about other personal stuff and is taking it out on you.
2007-01-14 19:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by panicatthediscorocks001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow ur mother so unbeliveable. Try to talk to her and tell her how you feel and be like mom you tell me to tell if my brother does something but when i do tell you get mad at me. Best of luck
2007-01-14 19:17:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry it sounds like your brother may be older than you,if he is she is looking at him more maturely and being able to converse with him they still are considering you as a small child is there anyone else you can go to with thiis and tell them how you feel ,dont feel left out
2007-01-14 19:29:52 · answer #9 · answered by loveChrist 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
like i do when i mad u should give ur mom the silent treatment and then shell fell sorry and dont even look at her face when ur goin anywere wit her or doin any thing wit her
2007-01-14 19:19:16 · answer #10 · answered by JE$$I g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋