i went out with this bloke off a dating site last summer and he sent me an email quite rude said he felt a few whiskers round my face and could i shave as he does, well i was annoyed and had a go at him and he sent me one and criticized things i said in a forum and said he could make me come for hours, and i was nothing special to look at that hurt me. well i did like him before this. he said is it finished and i said yes and had not heard from him in ages and then he suddenly starts writing to me. my friend said cos he met someone else its not worked out so he wants you, that made me angry, met someone else told him i was with someone he kept writing and i told him to leave me alone and now the other dumped me called me an unemployed layabout even though i do alot. which hurt alot as i liked him. now this other has started emailing me again. did he ever really like me or is he a loser. i don,t know, i guess i get a bit lonely sometimes and would like someone in my life.
2007-01-14 11:07:54 · 12 answers · asked by denise g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This bloke is not very nice to you.Forget about him. You know,Men are good mind reader,they can sense your weaknesses>>>>lonely,,,needy... desperate women are an easy target for men who played mind games.If I were you I will be my own woman,strong and self confident,happy,out going. And I don't let any man insult me. Here is the botton line ,a man want a strong woman that can put them in their place.There is a big different on this>>I NEED A MAN TO LOVE ME ----I WANT A MAN TO LOVE.Men goes to the second sentence. Good Luck!!
2007-01-14 11:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by Vannili 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth he probily is a loser. There is no reason to be rude anytime.I ran into the same problem and got a dear steve letter in my yahoo im from a girl i met online but my life doe's go on even when i'm depressed about being lonely.i hope your life gets better and you find the right relationship that make's you happy.I know i'm still searching.
2007-01-14 20:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by stevieb030369 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your self esteem is very low.Due to two male idiots.Do you have money?If so visit the hairdressers then buy some new clothes.In life it is all about self confidence.Smile at people and be chatty.I am sure Mr Right will turn up.Why not get a job?If you want to work the p;ease send me an e mail johnjuds@yahoo.com
2007-01-14 19:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by jjinbkk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him he is a loser and you can do better. Why not try going out with mates and try meeting people while you're out. Loneliness is not a nice feeling so make sure you're always with people you love like friends and family.
Hopefully sometime soon you'll maybe find your 'mr right'
2007-01-14 19:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by jadey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is a complete loser. instead of internet dating try joining a book club or cards to meet new people.delete his messages without replying and he will get the hint. dont accept his behaviour because your lonely, theres better men out there who will actually make you happy and wont hurt you. good luck
2007-01-14 19:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by lizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know where he lives? I think retribution is in order. Use your imagination. Get together with your friends and think of something. Really go over the top. How old is he anyway, 9? Adults don't behave like that.
2007-01-14 19:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's clear he doesn't respect you - you will be miserable in the long run with him. Just send a simple e-mail saying you don't wish to hear from him any more. Then ignore anything he sends you thereafter.
2007-01-14 19:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stuff em both, they sound like a pair of knobs.
Ignore, forget and move on x
2007-01-14 19:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by Phil C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he must be gay to want to hav a partner with whiskers , then tell him to get a job , and get a new victim cos it aint gonna be u !
2007-01-14 19:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by dan r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They both sound like idiots.
2007-01-14 19:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by The BudMiester 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋