we started goin out on the 4th of january then she moved due to family problems. shes a caouple of hours away so we decided to do the long distance thingy. well i called her everyday when she moved and i thought everything was goin good then thursday i talked to her then i called her friday and saturday one time each day and she didnt answer and she didnt return phone call and now its sunday. what should i do
2007-01-14 10:56:53 · 16 answers · asked by superstuddly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she has to go some where for the weekend.
Relax
2007-01-14 11:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to seem desperate, so wait a couple of days or a week and if she doesn't call you, call her. If she doesn't answer or call you back in a few days, then I would assume that she doesn't want to talk to you. I wouldn't take it personally. A long distance relationship is very hard to maintain. She may have decided to move on and find someone close to her or it could be a family emergency. Just wait.
Don't call her every day, women really hate that, and it makes you seem desperate and lame.
2007-01-14 11:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by sweetbabyart212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not very long, only what 12 days of dating. Moving or relocating takes up a lot of time. Also, mix that with family problems, you've got to call time-out. She's probably still getting settled in. Give her more time, in addition to the fact that you didn't help her move. You don't want to become a pest. Calm down, she'll call you.
Don't want to put a damper on your new relationship...Really, but long-distant relationships rarely pan out. They just take more work, to be successful.
2007-01-14 11:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as it may hurt, give her some space. Having family problems, she may need some time to herself. Maybe you are calling her too much. You haven't been together for very long, so it shouldn't be too hard to not call her for a couple of days. Just wait and see if she calls you, if she doesn't try to call in a week or so. If you don't get an answer, then I would say it's over. Just hang in there.
2007-01-14 11:05:54 · answer #4 · answered by hilton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually take unreturned calls as a silent break-up, but then as soon as I declare this, I get a call. Let the weekend pass and see what happens. Maybe something serious happened, you never know. If this goes on for a ridiculously long period of time, then my friend, you have experienced the silent break-up.
2007-01-14 11:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by fickle™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-14 10:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by Holy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't embarrass yourself, and call again. Let sleeping dogs lye!If she is still interested in you, she will call, but I have the feeling that she has found someone else,closer to home. So save your money, and don't call her again, until she phones you. If you haven't received a call in a couple of more days, move on and call it a day.
2007-01-14 11:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by peaches 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely circumstances due to moving have changed the situation. It's possible that the family problems would be something that you may not want to deal with if you were to keep her (depending on what they are).
2007-01-14 11:03:24 · answer #8 · answered by wowwee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until at least Tuesday perhaps she is with her family or may be too busy to talk to you so hang in there but if a month goes by then you can move on HUGS
2007-01-14 11:03:44 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance doesnt work ! but if you want it to it might work out for you two. she has family issues shes working on . dont be so pushy , or call a hundred times or shes gonna think your crazy . give it a break she will call you back .
2007-01-14 11:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by Agent 217 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her that it is not gonna work out between you2 and that yall need to be friends because you think that she is more than likely wit someone else and that really pisses you off and she never returns your calls so you think she doesn't have time for you any more
2007-01-14 11:02:41 · answer #11 · answered by missthang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋