Um well i like one of my best freinds. but he just started dating his ex again. The bad thing about is that i don't want to break them up cuz i know its bad but its getting hard not to tell him. So should i tell him or just leave it alone?
2007-01-14 10:51:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh yeah just so you guys know the reason they broke up are still there. Should i remind him of that?
2007-01-14 10:59:28 · update #1
Leave it be for the time being.
You had you chance and you did not tell him when he was single.
Good Luck
2007-01-14 10:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what I would do is wait until he breaks up with his girlfriend and then tell him how you feel (assuming you still feel the same way and haven't moved on). But if you really want to, then you can tell him how you feel now, but make sure you say something like, "I don't want it to change our relationship, I would just like you to know. I know you have a girlfriend and I'm happy for you...."
2007-01-14 11:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by butterflyattention2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it. If they break up again, then maybe broach it. Be prepared for it to change though. If he's not in to you, are you fine just being friends again? Honestly, knowing you will see him with other girls? If you do get together and break up, can you handle being friends with him afterwards, or fine that you may not be friends afterwards?
Ideally, he's just as in to you and you won't break up. BUT, the other scenarios are strong possibilities.
2007-01-14 10:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by HG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might wait and see if they break up again before you put yourself out there and get your feelings hurt hes dating his ex because they care for one another. and if he cared for you that way wouldnt he had given you some hints i think he would of and some times i think people think they like other people when they are not available and when they become available they really didnt want them after all.
2007-01-14 11:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel. My two best friends are dating and I just cant wait for them to break up. To tell u the cold, harsh truth? Don't help out in their realtionship. If he askd u to tell her something for him, don't. If he asks u to do something for him that relates to her, don't. (exept if he asks u to dump her 4 him)
2007-01-14 10:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by scruffdink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after he breaks up with her tell him how you feel
2007-01-14 10:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by hoplessly_in_love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone and search someone else that loves you
2007-01-14 11:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by susanarng 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋