I'm 19 years old and i haven't seen my older brother or sister since i was like 2. i live in cali, and they live in Tennessee. sure we talk on the phone, but it's kind of wierd. will i ever get to see them?
2007-01-14 10:50:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
how come you haven't see your brother and sister for such a long time? i don't understand it. yet all of you are living in the same country.
i have one sister live in malaysia, one brother live in japan, another sister live in zurich. i myself live in ireland. we are from indonesia. we always try to do our best to have a holiday at the same time to meet up back home in my mom's house. there are times where all of us can not make it but at least some of us still can see each other. and it's not easy and defenately not cheap for us to get home for holiday but we tried. why can't you? if you really want to see them? the chance is there only you can decide it when and how.
perhaps the question is that are you really want to see them or not and vice versa? it might be because all of you haven't see each other for such a long time so you all just doesn't know how to handle things when you actually meet. christmas is always the best time to meet up. or you can surprise them on their birthday.
i also have one weird relation in my family because myself and the oldest brother is 25 years apart. so when i was born he already got married. i never see him until i was like 15 or 16 years old and when i meet him we were quite ackward but yeah we still meeting up whenever it possible. he is still my brother.
don't worry to much. what's the worse can happen to meet your own brother and sister? the only possible thing is the ackwardness between all of you. but it won't be for long. once you get to see them and they see you, i am quite sure you all will get a long. but still there's going to be a lot of getting to know each other. but you'll be fine.
now...get your calendar and make your plan to go and see them and it woould be better if you told them about your plan so in that way they will be free as well to spend time woth you.
good luck!!!
2007-01-14 12:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by daniiisme!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go visit them, My step-dad had 3 brothers and a sister, and he had never met any of them until he was like 50. He's the oldest at 52.
2007-01-14 19:07:45 · answer #2 · answered by ash84102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make it a point to see them and get to know one another.Start making plans now for some sort of visit. Life is too short, and family is too important.
2007-01-14 19:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-14 19:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want to see them, if so make plans on visiting them or you can have them visit you. you can travel over there by bus , or plane
2007-01-14 19:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by joanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea - one day
2007-01-14 19:18:00 · answer #6 · answered by hellomynamedoesntstartwithab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋