I just split up from my bf of 2 yrs about a month ago, would have been 2 yrs today so im kinda feelin sorry for myself now, im so not over him and on the weekend i stayed at his place and we went out clubbin and even slept together a few times, i have been thru sum stuff lately and he wanted to help me feel better which was nice of him (the sex wasnt planned it just sorta happened) but it made me realise how much i still love him and want him. He said hes not over us either but that this is how he wants it to be. What can i do to get over him?
2007-01-14 10:49:42 · 2 answers · asked by Onie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My advice dont see him and dont have sex with him he is basically saying that your his fu** buddy. So obviuosly you want more and he wont want it either. Move on with life hunny hes not worth keeping.
You want to be with someone who will respect you and think about whats best for you.
Having sex with your ex is one of the biggest mistakes. It always leaves you more confused and harder to let go. SO definatly move on.
Hope your ok with the breakup im going through some of this myself. Take care, oxox
2007-01-14 10:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by Nat555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first, stop having sex with him and having contact all the time with him, it will just make it harder.
second, the less you see him, the more you'll see other guys to get your mind off of him which will make you feel better knowing that he's not the only one.
it sucks, but the less you talk to him the easier it will be. hoped this helped :)
2007-01-14 18:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by xoloudprincessox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋