ive been with my bf for over a year and 8 months and our relationship is perfect i mean everything is perfect, he use to call me at least 7 times a day then he left for college 6 months ago and things were still going really good till his phone got shut off now he has to use his friends phone and he only calls twice a day, and it bothers me because im not use to it, do you think a lil of that is because he dont want to be with me????????????
2007-01-14 10:48:38 · 12 answers · asked by Jaylynn's mommy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok here is more, he is 6 hours away and i only see him like two days out of like 3 months
2007-01-14 10:53:40 · update #1
maybe you guys are right maybe im reading too much into it because i was so use to being around him everyday till he left and im just not ready to accept the fact that he is really gone idk i guess i just miss the old times i love hearing his voice and i think that is why i dont like only being talked to twice a day, there is so much that goes on in both our lives that we both like to hear about idk i know he loves me i guess its just hard being away from eachother for so long
2007-01-14 10:58:24 · update #2
i think he should call you at least three times a day spread them out so that you can hear his voice its hard but hang in there
2007-01-14 17:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by beinginlove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 times a day? That sounds a bit excessive! Perhaps he wants to be considerate of his friends phone. Still twice a day is a lot. Perhaps also he is busy being in college and all.
2007-01-14 18:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by Scottee25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in college. There is a lot of work to do when you are in college. There is so much more homework to do than in high school. 2 times a day is fine. I would love to talk to my husband (who is in Iraq) twice a day. As it is now, I get to talk to him maybe twice a week. Be happy that you get to talk to him and quit reading so much into it. Good Luck.
2007-01-14 18:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by reddog19982000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Maybe his friends don't let him use his phone that much or his friends' parent doesnt. Unless you really suspect/have a feeling that he doesnt like you that much anymore or maybe cheating... I dont know about cheating though... Probably not. About the cheating, I mean.
2007-01-14 18:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he still wants to be with u! If he didn't u guys would have been split up already (no offense). maybe he can't call as much cuz his friends on the phone?
2007-01-14 18:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by nikki<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow , maybe he has an arm injury from holding the phone up to his ear seven times a day .
2007-01-14 18:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by Agent 217 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you on crack or something?? Seven times a day would drive me nuts. I think twice a day is too much.
2007-01-14 18:52:31 · answer #7 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's a lot, considering he's in college, and he needs to study! Also, he's using his friend's phone. You need to think of his situation instead of just thinking of yourself.
2007-01-14 18:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by Christine =) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
luv u have to understand d reallity of lfle it's not wahat u want but who u are don
't thnlink soo much about what his doing it's how u feel dat acucatally mattaters
2007-01-14 18:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he don't want to run his friends bill up if it upsets you so much you buy him a phone so he can call you and pay the bill.
2007-01-14 18:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋