About a year ago, i had an opportunity to be with a woman who would stop at nothing to give me attention. But i rejected her day in a day out, until one day we just stopped talking. Recently girl that i was dating at around the time that i stopped talking to her, broke up with me cuz of something stupid. Then at around thanksgiving i get a chance to talk to the woman who once so respected me and since im in iraq i decide maybe it would be a good thing to get reaquainted. Well it was good for about 2 months, but its just i dont really know anything about her, but this girl gots me on the hook. Then when i did try to confront her, i used some real foul language and well she wrote me a dear john letter. Im devistated of this loss, and i would like some advice on what i can do to get her back. But keep in mind, im in iraq too far to visit her, i cant really call her cuz of time diffrences and well the only true contact is emails and stuff. any ideas?
2007-01-14 10:32:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You snooze, you loose ~~~~~~~~
2007-01-14 10:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well if the only contact you have is through emails, make it long.
Make it sweet.
Tell her what comes from YOUR heart not from some of ours.
But Ill help you.
"Baby, Im so sorry for making you so upset. I've made mistakes of letting you go in the past, and I dont ever want to make that mistake again. You're one of the best things that have ever happened to me and if I lose you again I dont know what I'll do being so far from home and nothing to look foward to. I think about you constantly and can't wait to hold you in my arms. I hope you can forgive me. I truly am sorry."
Or something to that extent.
=]
G'luck.
2007-01-14 18:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie_ is_ bomb. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy, well e-mail her and apologize to her, and since you can't visit her would it be possible to send her some flowers with a card? if you don't have her physical address then maybe you should send her some e-cards. Anyway i wish you the best of luck with your lady friend and hope everything work out for the 2 of you.
keep in mind that if you're sincere you have a greater chance of getting her back.
2007-01-14 18:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got a dear John letter. Put this **** out of your mind, or you could end up not paying attention and get wasted over there.
You'll find a woman when you get back home safely. Believe me when i say this. Women who have husbands, boyfriends, fiance's over in irag are cheatin on thier guys left and right. They are all doing it.
Women are just evil biatches. Put this tramp out of your mind and just take care of bizness over there and be safe. Once you get home you'll find ton's of ladies wanting a real man.
2007-01-14 18:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by ash84102 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd try and appologize through a letter {shows that you really care bcause you took more time then email}. But I wouldnt blame her for not trusting you. Sorry.
2007-01-14 18:39:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since you treated her so badly and had no respect for her I guess you got exactly what you asked for. Now it's time to respect her and leave her alone.
2007-01-14 18:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by golden tigress 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are in iraqi you can just e-mail her and not worry about the time differents! Good Luck!
2007-01-14 18:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should not have done that in the first place.
you need to let her know that she is was keep you going at night and in the middle of the day and she is all you talk about to your friends.
2007-01-14 18:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by sumer h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would send E-mails but its gonna be hard to win her back after dissing her
2007-01-14 18:44:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flowers would be nice ... or an e- card apologizing for being such a dork....
2007-01-14 18:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the same way you just told us only ask her what you can do to make it up to her
2007-01-14 18:37:54 · answer #11 · answered by cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋