i have a bf of 2 months..but now im diggin a friend of 1 year..yea i kno..not long but watevr..my boyfriend doesnt show me any affection..no holding hands no nothing..but i think he really likes me..but i want more..like my friend i know will do things..like..idk..hold my hand or kiss me or something!!
2007-01-14 10:32:09 · 25 answers · asked by K-Rad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have u ever told ur boyfriend that u would like that??? maybe u should try that first before u become a cheating whore!!! oh yeah relationships dont stink u do b*itch!
2007-01-14 10:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. You really need to grow up just a little bit. If you don't like your boyfriend, don't string him along. Don't give me that crap about how you do like him, but you like your friend too. It doesn't work that way. You can't lead your boyfriend on. If you want him to show you more affection, just ask him to! Or make the first move yourself.
As for this friend, if you want him, you've got to tell your boyfriend the truth. Nicely! Don't you dare break his heart in a mean way. And don't you dare go after your friend when you've still got a boyfriend oblivious to your feelings for your friend.
Sorry, but you just seem very immature and annoying to me. Maybe it's just the way you worded the question. Maybe you really are a great person.
EDITED TO ADD: Sorry, but I just read that you're 14... if that's true, you're really making 14 year olds look bad. I'm 14 too, and I've been told so many times that I'm mature for my age. Please don't set such a bad example.
2007-01-14 18:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like your BF and you know he likes you too, then don't give up just yet. You might like the idea that your friend will do all those things that you prefer, but it's no reason to not give your BF a chance. Some guys are not very affectionate in public. It's how they grew up and what they know. Don't blame him too much. He may just be too shy about it or not have enough experience in that department. You can always make the moves and show him what you like.........Sometimes, a guy will be more comfortable if you hint to him that it's OK to do certain things at certain times.
2007-01-14 18:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is this that you're diggin' your friend all of a sudden? Or did you always like him? You might just be convincing yourself that you like your friend because your boyfriend isn't meeting your needs. I suggest you break up with your guy that seems lame anyway and figure out what kind of guy you really want to be with. Don't drag it on though, you'll only end up getting hurt or hurting your BF more if you wait too long.
2007-01-14 18:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by Rock, Paper, Scissors 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With your current boyfriend, remind him that you like him and all, but would like more. He may not realize that you expect him to be more affectionate to you. If you tell him and he still doesn't get it, then maybe it's time to move on. Just give your current bf a chance. If he's still being the same way, it may be time to say goodbye. Trust your own instincts, and do what YOU think should be done. That other guy you're into might be a better choice. Just be sure to get to know him well enough to tell. Much luck to you.
2007-01-14 18:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by Misscheerios2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on a minute... talk to your bf if you really like him and tell him what you need and why he doesn't do these things. You have to think if you want someone just because they'll hold your hand and kiss you or if you want someone who will respect you when the end of the night comes. good luck and make wise decisions.
2007-01-14 18:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by lil' miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you do anything drastic... talk to your boyfriend. tell him what you want. communication is SO important. He may just not like PDA (public displays of affection). He may be a private guy who will hold your hand in the car, kiss you at home, etc. if that bothers you, tell him. if his answer doesn't satisfy you, then at least you have your options open. 2 months is not an EXTREME amount of time that you've put in, so it shouldn't be that difficult if you decide to break it off.
2007-01-14 18:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by jvcheerio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree, relationships are so complicated with so many rules. You should confront your boyfriend to show some love and if he doesn't then if you like your friend hook up with him. A friend of 1 yr is more meaning than a bf for only like 2 months...its all up to you. GOOD LUCK! ^__^
2007-01-14 18:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by anonydipity_09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to switch, tell your boyfriend that you are not feeling the romance in your relationship and need more that what you feel you are getting from him, so you want to cut it off. Then go hold your friend's hand and kiss him.
2007-01-14 18:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by Vivian D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have feelings for someone else then I think you should leave him and be happy don't stay where you are not appreciated life is too short break up with this guy ...tell you friend you like him and want more...and take it from there...be honest with everyone but make sure you break up with the boyfriend first..Shows that you have respect for him and yourself...good luck and take care
2007-01-14 18:36:46 · answer #10 · answered by Ally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋