I have cheated on my girlfriend (she's now my ex), and I had been trying to get back with her, but at the sametime did not feel like. I asked for a break, but she later ended up breaking up with me, and ending the relationship. She's deeply in love with me, but she recently found out that I had cheated, well not cheated her but lied to her. As I was flirting with her, I became part of this affair with another girl. It was until some days ago taht she found out about this through a person I trusted and considered my friend. She read the messages I had sent to this other girl, and from that time she's been hurt. She does not want to talk to me right now, but I really cared for her, it was more like a close friend's love and I feel guilt for doing what i did. My ex has not found out about the other 6 times I cheated on her after getting together. I am now trying to regain her trust before she finds out about the rest of the affairs i encountered, and I feel the need to have her.
2007-01-14 10:26:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you don't really love her so move on. Stop trying to hurt her.
2007-01-14 10:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by rubyred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to contact her when you don't deserve her trust. How would you feel if you knew a bunch of different guys were [inside her] giving it to her and bringing out the woman in her, you probably failed to do? She deserves better and will receive better. Why would she want your sloppy left overs, when she is probably having a good time making her own gravey with a better looking more Endowed Hot Young Drop-Dead Gorgeous Stud anyways???Sill think your all that???
2007-01-14 18:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by CARAMIA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly i think you have a slim chance because i believe once a cheater always a cheater and no girl or guy deserves to be put through that kind of situation and i believe if you really love her than you would have not cheated.
2007-01-14 18:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by jus_teazen08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not come out and be bruttally honest.. beacuse if she finds out later about the other 6 times.. your in the dog house with justification..
If you were just dating lightly add that you were not married.. that your dating around.. but if you would like a serious
relationship with her let her know everything and start
from square one.. if she lets you back in her life.
2007-01-14 18:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by John S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really need her... you just like the chase maybe? You should let her go for now... you may feel guilt but I'm thinking if you get her back the same thing'll happen.
2007-01-14 18:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! um.... i dont kno wat 2 say........... i feel her pain.... :'(
2007-01-14 18:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by g00d_kiss3r_1992 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋