you know when you love somebody soo much but nothing you do is ever good enough for them? i just want him to love me for who i am. but apparently im not good enough so he has to cheat.
i dont want to leave him, but he has hurt me so bad. should i forgive him and take him back or is once a cheater always a cheater. ive never met anybody like him. we've been together for 2 years. leaving him would crush me. what should i do?
2007-01-14 10:20:10 · 17 answers · asked by vanessa b 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The pain is all part of the fun for you women isn't it? You never give the nice guys a chance.
2007-01-14 10:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And he's been cheating for two years? Maybe you'll find someone you like more. Keep going now is my advice, but stay cautious. Don't get hung up on him. There are nicer, kinder poeple out there probably waiting for you to come along! Maybe if you look at other people and search, you'll find someone you like eyeing you. Once a cheater is not always a cheater, but it's hard. If you REALLY love him, just tell him it hurts that he's cheating, and spend time with him. He may not appreciate it, but hey, if he cheats, it's all about you, girl!
2007-01-14 18:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by imaforestspirit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should leave him if he has cheated on u it doesnt matter what he does for u and yes once a cheater always a cheater. if u dont break up with him soon he might do it to u so you should just take the ball into your court. there are a bunch of guys out there that will love you for who you are and not cheat on you. you deserve better.
2007-01-14 18:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by superstuddly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheat. Can change.
Twice a cheat. Always a cheat.
If he cheats on you a second time, leave him. Drop him so fast he leaves a cloud of dust when he hits the ground.
Trust me, I know how much love hurts and almost nothing can cure it, but time and friends can dull the pain.
You will recover but will be a little more cautious.
2007-01-14 18:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
staying with him wouldnt be a good idea. in the back of your head you are always going to wonder if he is still cheating on you. as they say once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-01-14 18:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by claidifl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE!! once a cheater always a cheater! I went through the same thing for almost 6 years and totaly regreat not letting go sooner. I lost those years trying to get him to love me for me and me not loving my self! you deserve better!!!
2007-01-14 18:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i've had the same situation happen to me, na di actually forgave him. it was hard but he actually proved that he loved me and wanted to be with me for the rest of my life. guys have this thing that they do if they are unsure of what they have they have to go test it and see if being with another woman will assure that. the thing is does he show you that he is extremely sorry and will do anything to get you back? if he does that then its worth considering giving him another chance, but if he doesn't then its not worth crying over. yeah you love him and he's hurt you, so the thing is let him be miserable, you shouldn't and if he loves you and still wants to be with you then he should prove it to you. love hurts it just does.
2007-01-14 18:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by Dory Ian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand that you will be hurt if you decide to leave him but you will learn to accept it. if he cant love you for who u are and be happy with you then you are wasting your time. if he is not happy and needs to cheat then that tell you that relationship is not going right in is going down the drain. if you stay with him you are going to be hurt more than if you leave him and get over him which will be better for you in the long wrong.
2007-01-14 18:28:33 · answer #8 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay...i think that everybody deserves a second chance...but dont let this guy walk all over you.....keep an eye out on him but dont spy....i kno it hurts but there is always the possibility that this huy doesnt love you back and its better to leave this guy and find someone who truly loves you for who you are....i hope that helped....e- mail me if it did....thank you :)
2007-01-14 18:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by Gamerz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit the road running it hurt just as much every time, and almost always with your friends they can't go find thier own grils they take your's so you lose two people.
2007-01-14 18:26:57 · answer #10 · answered by jane h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋