advice on guys.?

Question

this is odd, but here it goes.
im in my teens (and not too young)
and dont know how to properly make out.
i never had the oppertunity when i was younger,
and now i dont wanna kiss someone and have them think im bad.
im plenty old enough,
but whenever a guy starts to try to kiss me i dont let it go that far,
any advice or pointers.
cause im lost.

please dont say just go with it, i dont know how to..

Answer 1

guys are into sex and erotic stuff
in their minds

so play with us =]

Answer 2

Depending on what type of guy is with u determines ur actions. In other words use ur intuition. If you don't feel comfortable with him don't do anything u don't want to do. You don't have to do anything u don't want to and not one can take that away from u. If u do, take it one step at a time.

Kissing is a natural thing and everyone is different at it whether it be ur first or ur 100th. Not everone kisses the same and everyone has a different reation to it depending on ur feelings. If its ur first kiss, i guess it's natural for the guy to start off. That's just my opinion though. Some guys ask first, others will give u a 'look' and some take you completely by surprise. Making out isn't everything there is to a relationship.

If the guy is doing something u don't like say 'no'. Remember that u have the right to say yes or no to anything, that u have a choice. Stand up for ur moral and personal boundries. Also, be wise about the choices that you make. That way u don't regret them or they don't harm u in the future.

Don't listen to people who are telling u stupid things cuz they don't care about other peoples feelings or the outcome of their own actions and their trying to get u to do something that u'll regret for the rest of ur life.

I'm a teenager too so i know about peer presure and bad advise. The difference is trusting ur intuition and common sence. Also, listening to ur elders like ur parents or someone older that u trust completely. They should know what to tell u and guide you through difficult obstacles you will face in life. I hope this helps u out. Sry its a little long but I had to explain what I'm trying to convey.

Enjoy life and be wise about ur choices.

Answer 3

truth is i'm in the same state.....and no if i were you i wouldnt just go with it...but i was thinking about getting a close guy friend to teach me...one that has experince and maybe i can learn from him...but i read...lol...that if you moth the word olive while making out it helps because the way the mouth is supposed to move while making out is like saying olive....but remember dont say it mouth it...hey it's worth a try...you might actually have a natural talent....who knows....

good luck!!!

why dont you go get a book i'm sure there is one....or look it up on the internet....

Answer 4

There are a couple of good books...one I recommend is:

The Art of Kissing, by William Cane. Not only does it offer unique suggestions..its a quick and fun read.

Fun for those who have kissed too!

Answer 5

relax stay calm, kissing is natural its not something to worry about and the more you do it the better you become so its time to start NOW lol you have to make sure your attracted to him lock lips and then use tongue but not too much you dont want to choke him then the rest will simply come to you....confidence is the one thing you must maintain

Answer 6

Find a guy that you can trust & have them teach you or a girl.