Okay. so my cousin's husband's cousin (lol, sry if its confusing, long story short, he isnt related to me) is 20, and im 14. i heard from my cousins that he thought i was hot, and he didn't know how old i was. this happened at her engagement. when we go for her wedding (this april) hes definatly gonna be there, and i dont know what to do! should i like act normally around him? i mean, he was reallly reallly hot. but hes kinda like 20 yrs old. so any suggestions?
2007-01-14 10:05:06 · 19 answers · asked by ▐▀▀▼▀▀▌ ► Pogo ◄ ▐▄▄▲▄▄▌ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's gross. and if you do anything with him. then he's considered a child molester. he could get into serious trouble. but if he's normal and realized that your 14 then he'es probably disgusted withhimself and embarrassed that he was wrong, and no doesnt want anything to do twith you
2007-01-14 10:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yea, stay away from him... he's freakin 20 yrs old. In most states it's called "Statutory Rape" whether you consent or not. That could mean serious jail time for the 20y.o. You're 14... give yourself some time to grow up a little bit more. Have some teenage fun while you can, because those years go by all too quickly.
2007-01-14 10:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by weatherization guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahahhahahahhahaha
you funny. wait till you 16 before you start going with people over 18, it wont be as bad then. 14 + a 20 year old is a little much. 6 years isnt bad its just that you are 14 say if he were 23 and you were 17 now that seems alot better, but thats just bobs thought
But anyways just be normal around him
2007-01-14 10:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by T razz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ewe! Run far far away! If he's 20 and he wants to be with a 14 year old that is a problem, can you say sex offender? Try to find someone your own age that watches One Tree Hill.
2007-01-14 10:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by glittergirl9221 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does sagitory RAPE mean anything to you? Find somebody your age, 20 could land him in jail for 5 to 10 years.
2007-01-14 10:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by Moose 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's too old for you. I'm sure that you will do what you want and do NOT want to hear it, but you need to hang with boys closer to your own age, at least until you're 18.
2007-01-14 10:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by Barefoot Chick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should just leave him alone because if y'all would hook up you can make it so that he will be sent to jail for having an affair with a minor and i think that you don't want that to happen.
2007-01-14 10:24:22 · answer #7 · answered by baby girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go sweetie...he's too old for you...enjoy the view, but don't take anything seriously...you're still a bit young to date, and he's a grown man...crushes are fun, but they often end up with us getting our feelings hurt...do be careful...
2007-01-14 10:10:54 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dammn thats 2 old 4 u .. i had something like u but im 17 n ma guy is 20 no big difference ...... stay away he to old
2007-01-14 10:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by ms.Drz Nena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep him out of jail stay away from him till your 18
2007-01-14 10:31:51 · answer #10 · answered by Bri 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋