Should I kill myself?

Question

I don't have any friends, I hate my job, and I don't have anyone that I can really talk to or have fun with. I am miserable. What can I do?

Answer 1

Wow! Slow down! I wouldnt do anything but give yourself a bit of time to think. It sounds like you are going through a real tough time right now. Tackle your problems one step at a time and not all at once. Spend 10 minutes looking for a new job each day and sign up for a class like karate lessons where you can socialize. Hey you only have one life and you can turn it around. It wont happened overnight but nothing good ever does. If you honestly think that you are a danger to yourself right now call 911. Otherwise sleep on it and start a new day tomorrow!

Hey! I saw your other question! You need to eat and give yourself some time.

Answer 2

Send me an instant message on Yahoo. jriley365

I'll be your friend. As for your job, you can always change that. Also, with everything else, I know the feeling, but killing yourself is never the answer. I'm pushing 30 and never had a girlfriend who liked me, my family could care less if I lived or died while growing up, and can't say I ever had any "real" friends. Guess what though, all of that is overrated. Once I realized that I have to live for me, everything changed. When I started taking myself out and showing myself a good time, that's when others wanted to join in. When I focused my time going to college to get the job I always wanted, got it and enjoy it, that's when others try to put me down (actually taking notice of me). When I took the money from my fun job and used it to buy the stuff that "I" wanted, that's when the ladies wanted to start talking to me.

Guess what though, I'm content with being by myself and enjoy it everyday. In a year or two, I plan on adopting a kid to give him/her the life I never got. Just take my advice and just look after yourself, have fun with yourself, enjoy yourself. You'll be happier when you do, I promise.

Answer 3

See a counselor or a church for advice they can help you and give you friendly advice try joining a sports team or something else you would like such as any night classes you would find interested learning a new language or art. Look into some tips of how to socialize and communicate with other people and get to know the people in what ever it is you decide to do or start talking to the people at your work you never know how people will surprise you but you may find a friend there and it may help make your work a whole lot more enjoyable.
You will get through this we all have troubled patches in life and this is one of the ones in yours. Maybe even find online communities that would have people from your area you could get to know and after a while maybe even meet face to face.
Good luck with it all

Answer 4

Killing yourself is a otion that last a for ever. You are at a bad point alright & thinking that way is a cry for help. You didn't say how old you were. Doesn't matter. Buried down inside is still a spark of courage. I know it is there, because you found it & asked that question. Reach back dowwn in there for there is more & look up the number for suicide prevention in your area. You will find people there that can & will help you. No friends, volenteer with seniors who have nobody to visit them. They need to talk to somebody too. Or a soup kitchen & help feed the less fortunate. You will find friendship & even love from those people & appreciation. Get out there & find a reason to be alive.
Very good place to be really. Good Luck!

Answer 5

Absolutely not!

You are a Child of God. Perhaps you are going through a tough and disheartening time right now, but I believe that you will look back on this and be very happy that you reached out and made a more affirmative choice for yourself.

I have a couple of suggestions that you are free to explore further or reject. One is prayer. You probably know of someone who can help you with this... even if you don't feel so inclined, what have you to lose? Give that person a call or email them. The other suggestion is the Emotional Freedom Technique, an energy therapy that is quick and easy to learn and apply. You can read about it here> http://tinyurl.com/ykdg5t It is definitely a standby in our household when we are depressed or anxious. I have helped many people learn about it and turn their lives from unhappy, stress-filled ones to peaceful, happier ones.

God bless you!

Answer 6

If you hate life that much, that your willing to risk something you only get once. Never to become again.Well, thats nonsense, you should live life will its still in the grasp of your hands. Im gonna try and go crazy with my life. Though without the temtations of drugs and alchohal. They are two of the many ways to take your life. You can still have fun without these, they dont make the world funner as people say. They just shorten your life an essence more. All i need in life for fun, hope, or anything else are my freinds, family, and anyone whose there for me when i need them.

So if your ever getting that life isnt enough for you and that your wishing for death. I want you to then pick up a phone call someone and just talk about how precious life is. You dont have to die to be someone. You just have to have a meaning in life, even if its a stupid reason like selling hotdogs. It doesnt matter. Just live life while you have it, and for all my freinds out there, always know that whenever you need it, I'll be there for you, and hopefully you'll be there for me.

And just remember this

"Nobody gets to live life backward. Look ahead, that is where your future lies."

Answer 7

You don't need to be sad. May be you just a person, who will be more interesting with books, theaters, arts e.t.c. You don't need to talk with everybody just because they are people. Some people may not be interesting for you. You will find your kind of people, and it's could be 1-2 persons but they will be REAL people for you.
I do not have a lot of friends too, just few people. We are not talking each other every day because we are busy and don't have a lot of time.
About your job, hm. If you don't like it, then change it. It is can't be quick but you can talk to yourselves how wonderful is everyday and every moment until you'll find something else.
For now, go to the mirror, look at yourself.
SMILE
YOU ARE THE BEST, YOU ARE BETTER THEN ANYBODY ELSE.

Answer 8

God gave you life and why should you take it. You don't solve problems by running from it or by killing yourself. You should sit and think about ways to make your life better. Always think that there is someone out there who has more problems than you and they are still alive and trying to deal with it. Personally I think that there is always a solution to every problem but killing yourself is definitely not one of them. I always say that if you're going through a hard time now, later would always be something to look forward to because it is going to be good. You don't need friends to be happy, sometimes you are better off without them. As for your job, hold on to it until you get something else. I'm out of a job almost eight months now and I'm still alive and making myself happy. Only you can make yourself happy, no one could do this for you. Try to start loving yourself and then you'll see that there's every reason to live. I wish you all the luck and please take that thought out of your head.

Answer 9

Philosophical questions do not give the best answers.
My latest breakup was actually within the last week with the company where they told me that it wasn't working out instead of the girl at work that I was dating. That's a little sdrawkcab! The time that I actually was in the situation you're finding yourself in, found me some other alternatives to make me think whether that was really what I wanted; I still can't answer it. I miss each and every one I've dated as each one means something that will direct me later to what I do want.

Answer 10

I'm a Christian and a nurse. I would pray about it. I would also keep a journal about how you are feeling. Pain and trouble always past, nothing stays the same. I would also work on what you really want, like friends make some or a new job, maybe you should keep that job and look for a better one. There is always a positive side to everything.