i am 15 and there is a girl who i think is really beautiful both on the inside and out.about a month i introduced myself and started to speak to her like for two minutes once every three days . i cant really explain how she is but she doesnt talk that much but it isnt like she doesnt talk at all since then all i could think about was her and everytime i spoke to her she smiled and was very friendly. but now i feel like i am loosing her she is getting bored of me she doesnt smile that much around me .is not that i said anything dumb or stupid but i want her to like me , make her laugh and make feel more comfotable around me and i want to get closer to her and be her friend first and guys like me dont usually get girls like her.im not ready to tell her how i feel just yet but i do wanna get close to her. tommorow is school what should i say to her and do
2007-01-14 10:02:22 · 15 answers · asked by Josh j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are obsessed... she is starting to feel the pressure around you... I think you should move back ur be more laidback around her
2007-01-14 10:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by Caribou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about the weekend its simple, and its casual, and her answer can be short or in depth. Your looking for a more in depth answer because if its a longer answer then she is more in the mood for conversation. So take it from there. If its a short answer then take it do some small talk and leave it at that until later don't be too pushy but make your presence known, and make sure she is having fun when you are around so she'll associate you with a good time.
2007-01-14 18:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by 45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. If you can't be yourself, who else could you be. This sort of thing happens to most young men. Does your heart feel like it's going to beat out of your chest every time she's near, do you worry about every thing you say and how you look around her? Is every waking hour spent thinking of her, and your dreams filled with her? Like I said if you answer "yes" to these questions then you're just like every other young man. Like the first guy said, relax, "chill". You're gonna live; we all did.
Thanks for the question it brought back alot of sweet memory's for an old man.
2007-01-14 18:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by Ron P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you talk to other girls? Because if you don't, you need to start. Not only will you become more comfortable talking to all girls in general, but your crush will notice and will be more comfortable talking to you.
Which other girls to talk to? Anyone and everyone, but most importantly, your crush's friends. Knowing her friends (or better yet, being in the same group of friends) increases your chances tenfold.
2007-01-14 18:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by Jay T. Marlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to start with the basics, what kind of movies, music, sports activities she likes, find out what you have in common, if you tell her more about you, but listen to her intently it will bring the two of you together, show her respect and good luck.
2007-01-14 18:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put something together as a big group thing and invite her to come, everyone will be less likely to be uncomfortable in a group.
2007-01-14 18:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Informed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck, but my advice focus on your self and your education. do you hobbies and reward yourself with a good gift for yourself when you pass your education. go for a holiday with friends or family members, or by yourslef, take care and respect your self and your dreams, I know it is not easy, but you should say to yourself, I will put myself before everyone else, I am special and I am going to acheive my goals that will benefit me, and if I want pass I will reward my self with a good holiday on a beach with friends or family.
take care, with my respect
2007-01-14 18:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by Summer O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up and start talking about classes and stuff like that or a teacher that everyone hate and school stuff and then ask her how her weekend was she will appericate u just lisneting
2007-01-14 18:06:39 · answer #8 · answered by soccerlvr4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be casual say hi, and ask her if you can walk her to class or something like that. just do little things for her from time to time, like find something she really enjoys like her favorite type of candy and just give it to her. i think its cool what your doing and how your taking it slow, don't worry she still notices you, just keep doing what your doing, but don't crowd her as in following her around, just be cool.
2007-01-14 18:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by Dory Ian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you should prethink what your gonna say to her and think of how you'd feel if someone told that statemant to you.
2007-01-14 18:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by youjrys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋