Can you help me?
guys...im currently pregnant ,my ex came inside me once right after my period, and i was seeing a next guy at the same time ,the next guy never came inside me but we didnt use a condom..my question is who is more likely to be the father? can i get pregnant from pre cu m??? please dont respond with nasty answers ..thank you
2007-01-14 09:57:34 · 17 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
You never know. There's no set handbook of statistics stashed into a medical library somewhere that say "this is the chance of you getting pregnant in this situation"...and so on. Why? Because each woman is different.
Now, of course you can get pregnant from precum because many times, the precum still has viable sperm. But which situation is more likely? The one in which the man came inside of you. You can get pregnant at any time during your cycle (although highly unlikely at some points).
2007-01-14 10:04:22 · answer #1 · answered by lilsedalemami 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking the same question over and over again? Everyone has already told you that you can. Yes, you can. And its called 'pre-ejaculate' if you want to put it in the title for the next 10 times you ask this question.
Also, ultrasound dating is a rough estimate (since you were asking about this in another of your recent questions) and will not be able to tell you to the day when you conceived, although it will be close. Sperm can live in the body for days, so both mens sperm could have been competing for the egg for days before conception occurred. The only way to tell will be a paternity test, which can be done during an amniocentesis or CVS sampling (which can be done much sooner but has a higher risk of miscarriage) These tests are expensive and some doctors won't perform them simply for the sake of proving paternity. You can later get a DNA paternity test done by blood or a swab of the cheek (both the prospective father's and the child's) after the delivery.
2007-01-14 11:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by medicpaige 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't listen to the people who are cutting you down, because they have no idea what the situation is, and anyone who is so cold hearted to cut down a pregnant woman is sick. All you need is support right now! I have been reading a book called "Getting Pregnant Naturally" and according to that, pre C*m is more highly concentrated than that of a regular ejac. Personally I would say that it is your new b/f's but you never know. I am sure that everything will work out either way, and just remember everything happens for a reason! If it isn't your new b/f's i'm sure he will be upset, but if he truely loves you, he will accept this and you guys can make it as another thing you have overcome together! Best of Luck!
2007-01-14 11:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by JessNAshes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you can get pregnant from pre *** because pre *** is actually more potent since it contains MORE sperm per centimeter than ejaculate. The only way you're going to find out who the father is at this point is wait until the pregnancy gestates to term and have dna tests run. Thats what you get for spreading your legs all over town.
2007-01-14 11:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you can get pregnant from pre ***. As for who the father is, I would say it would be your ex, but theres always a good change it could be with the other guy.
2007-01-14 10:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by angel01182 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can get pregnant from anything be it *** or precum it only takes one of those little swimmers to do the job. If any fluid from either guys got in contact with your ******* then you will have to wait to find out.
Nobody online can tell you who is more likely and if they did I wouldnt take their advice and the only way you are going to know is by DNA testing after the baby is born.
2007-01-14 11:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by BrunettesRbetter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, pre-ejaculate can contain sperm, even enough to cause pregnancy; but it is *much less likely* than with a normal ejaculation.
A better question is, why were you having sex with two different guys in such a short period of time? Don't you have any self-respect?
2007-01-14 10:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by dukefenton 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At this stage you can't really be sure who the father is, a blood test would be in order to find out. And yes you can get pregnant from precum.
2007-01-14 10:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pre-*** can still get you pregnant, so it depends on when in your cycle you had sex with him. Unfortunately, it seems like there's only one true way to find out who the father is: genetic testing. Good luck!
2007-01-14 10:04:33 · answer #9 · answered by djsugarmuffin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im gonna put money that its the 'next guy' - as the sex occurred at amore fertile time of the month (i assume) - but unless these two men look VERY different i think you are going to need a paternity test to figure it out.
2007-01-14 10:11:54 · answer #10 · answered by motherhendoulas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋