how do i get over him??

Question

I've liked this guy for months and he is one of my good friends but he doesn't like me and he is currently dating one of my best buds. When i see her with him i feel like running away and crying because i know that he will never chose me. I can't be happy around him or my friend(his gf). How the hell do i get over him????

Answer 1

If the fact that he is dating your friend hasn't helped you get over him I can't imagine what it will take. But... if you can't be happy around them, it would probably be a good idea to distance yourself from them until you sort out your feelings. Try hanging out with a different circle for a while, new people, new places, etc.

Have some fun and don't waste time thinking about a person that doesn't show interest in you...there are way too many fish in the sea!!

Answer 2

Maybe you need to start focusing on yourself a little more. I'm not too sure how old you are but perhaps you could travel or form a new interest outside of these two friends?

This will allow you some breathing space, firm up your ability to be independent and will allow you to meet other people - perhaps even a new love.

Just behave maturely, don't let this ruin your friendship as more often than not, these young-love relationships don't last and your friendship with your gal-pal should be more important than what could be a flash-in-the-pan crush.

Answer 3

Yes he does like you. You just said he is one of your good friends. So he doesn't want to date you. SMART GUY!! He wants to keep you for a special friend and he knows if he dates you and then it doesn't work out, your friendship will be ruined too. Be happy for your friend (the girl)....remember this: if they don't stay together, he'll still be your good friend. And GOOD FRIENDS ARE GOOD TO HAVE!!

Answer 4

Find somebody else to take his place!!!!