okay last night my phone rang and had a text message on it. my dad opened my phone and hit ok, which sent it to my recived text messages. i had recived an earlier message that said" i wanna f!!k you" my dad being conserened showed my. my mom said come on we are going to this kids house to talk to his dad! I DID NOT EVEN GO OR KNOW THAT THEY WENT TO HIS HOUSE UNTILL AFTER THEY WENT!! Ifeel this is an invazion of my privacy on my dads behavle because he has been known to do this but not to this extent!! I have 3 questions on this subject.
1. Do you think this is an invadion of my privacy?
2. What would you do if you were me?
3. What would you do if you were my parent?
2007-01-14 09:39:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm a parent and first off I wouldn't have gone to the boys house or invaded your privacy unless I had good reason to. Trusting your child is very important and giving them privacy and respect is also very important.
2007-01-14 09:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by cutiepie81289 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. No, this was not an invasion of privacy, because (i'm assuming here) you are a teenager and you live in his home.
2. If I were you, I would talk to my friends and ask them not to send you those kinds of messages.
3. If I were your parent, I would not have gone to the kids house, I would have had your phone shut off. Immediately!
2007-01-14 10:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Yes, it invaded your privacy and with a dude text messaging you this kind of filth, it's good you had a parent interested in your welfare.
2. I'd be sure to tell the guy to NOT text me trash any more. I'd apologize to my parents for being mad at them for trying to protect me.
I'd promise to tell the guy to STOP IT and then I'd keep my promise. I'd follow my parents' rules whether they were looking or not.
3. I'd continue to watch you pretty close for awhile to see if you were following the house rules and I'd tell you that I care enough to watch out for your health, happiness, and safety until you're an adult on your own and can do it for yourself.
2007-01-14 10:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off who pays for the phone, If it is you, he has invaded your privacy and you could legally do something about it. If he pays you are out of luck, even though he has invaded your privacy. you need to put a password on you phone and do not allow him access.
2007-01-14 10:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by biged 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i feel it is an invasion of privacy
if i were you i would put a password on my phone or hide it.
if i was your parent i would not let you see the boy so he could not f!!k you
you are obviously not old enough to have boys f!!king you. Hit bob up when you learn how to spell invasion, then we will talk about letting boys f!!k you.
2007-01-14 10:30:33 · answer #5 · answered by T razz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don know but i would be mad
2007-01-15 06:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by inlovebutconfused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋