Long Black hair and green eyes.?

Question

Well, I have long black trimmed healthy naturally black hair.I wear my hair straight down.(My hair is up to my back and I keep it VERY clean!!) I usually NEVER wear my hair down. And I'm new to this school so, everyone, well to narrow it down, it's mostly the girls, are always complaining about something bad about me. There always talking about how I should put my hair up, and why do you lawasy leave it down, put it up. (And I don't like wearing it up because I just don't want to. Not that it looks bad or anything). And they're ALWAYS telling me to cut my hair and that it's too long and all that. One girl was walking behind me and she pretended to cough while saying "DEAD ENDS! DEAD ENDS!" And then another girl was like talking about "her" hair saying " I hate dead ends" and she looked at me while saying it. And I don't have any dead ends. It's like they care more about me then they do themselves. I'm trying not to let it get to me but it's hard. What do I do? I'm a very nice person.

I also have green eyes. NATURAL! By the way. I'm all natural, I DO NOT WEAR ANYTHING fake, I DON'T wear ANY makeup like most of the girls in my new school do.

Answer 1

They are jealous. Keep your hair down and feel good about pissing them off.

Maybe since you have natural beauty and they have to pile on the makeup...they are worried you will snag their boyfriends.

Really, that's how pathetic they are that your hair is the most important thing they talk about??? They are worried of you becoming popular too and they have to knock you down so others will follow suit.

Feel good about that...you are so much better than that so just ignore them. Laugh whenever they gossip about you since they have no real life.

Answer 2

Girls are catty. Fact of life. High school, I'm guessing?

You're the new girl and the new target. Discredit you and they don't risk losing a cute boyfriend to you later. You could be perfect and they'd still find six things to complain about. Anything different makes good fodder for teasing...

People in different parts of the country and different cities around the world have unique preferences. That's why you can pretty much pick out the California girl from the one that has lived in Patonka, Minnesota her entire life. You come with your own pre-concieved notions of what is 'normal' and what is 'pretty'.

You need to make your own decisions of what you will do and what you will not do to adapt to your new environment. Realize they're just being catty and immature. More teasing probably means they think you're pretty already (and thus a threat to their future boyfriends.)

I'm sure you are a nice person. In this case, you need to be a nice person who knows who she is and what she wants. Stand your ground - it's what makes you beautiful just the way you are.

Answer 3

Aw, I'm sorry that's happening to you. I have really long hair too (but it's brown), and people tell me all the time that I should cut it, I should get layers, I should do this or that... I just tell them no thanks, but sometimes it really does still get to me.

And there's this girl I know named Jess who's got longer hair than me - really, amazingly long. And she actually does need a trim, because it actually does look a bit split-ends-y, but I don't tell her that because she likes her hair the way it is.

And I believe you when you say your hair is very clean, no split ends or anything... I think these girls are jealous. I know it sounds very cliche, but why else would they act like your hair looks bad when it doesn't?

Next time someone says something like tha tto you, don't pounce on them with the "you're just jealous" thing... it never works if you say it like that, you just seem stuck up. You could try the nice tactic, when you just thank them for their opinions and smile like nothing's wrong. Or you could say, calmly but a bit icy, "I'm sorry, who's hair is it? Not yours." Like they should back off. (Because they should, it's not their hair.)

Offer to let them look at your ends, and show them that there aren't any split ends. Or maybe suggest that they do something better with their time than worry about someone else's hair.

I hope this works out... email me (it's in my Answer's profile) and let me know what happens. Good luck. :)

Answer 4

Most people have to dye their hair to make it black and wear contacts to get green eyes. These girls are so jealous because all the boys think your hot. I am sure that there are many girls in your school who don't care about stupid stuff like that.
An next time some B walks behind you saying something stupid "accidentally" flip your hair so it hits her in the face.

Answer 5

Psh. You just don't feel like paying attention to her. Here's a nice long answer to go with your question.

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They're probably jealous. I always wanted long hair, but my hair just isn't very healthy, so I have to work on that first.

It sounds to me like they're just looking for a reason to pick on the new kid, and that's all they could come up with. If you have friends, just remember that. If you don't, look around for people who aren't making fun of you and try to be friends with them.

In the meantime, join clubs and make yourself known for something good. People always used to make fun of me, but they liked me a little more when I started joining clubs and entering competitions. Eventually, I got into choir, took voice lessons, and got really good at singing. Although I still have enemies, a lot more people respect me because of what they know I can do (that they can't do).

E-mail me if you want to talk more.

Answer 6

The person stating her queston was long. Yeah its long because she wanted us to know what's going. Sometimes you have to exlpain. Moving on...

The girls are jealous of you. You sound like a pretty girl and when a new girl moves to town the local cows get all worked up and will stop at nothing to make you feel bad. You just keep taking care of yourself..

My suggestion: Next time the chic gets all up on you. Stop, turn and walk right up on her stanky butt. Nose to nose. And I mean nose to nose and ask her what the hell is her problem. These type of girls are
Insecure about themselves. Fire back at them. Point out their faults. Talk about how bad her breath sticks, her green teeth, maybe her lazy eye. Even if she doesn't have one.… get mean and nasty… and do it noes to nose. Invade her comfort zone.

If she's yelling, she's scared and you have the upper hand..

Best of luck and hang in there... high school sucks...
worse comes to worse talk to your parents and meet with the schools Guidance consoler and the other girls parents. No one should be bullied.

Answer 7

you're Very exceptionally Like one among My friends From yet another college. there is not something a lot To Do, As you won't be able to communicate Into Their Minds declaring "do not Bully Her!" don't be Shy yet not Too effective Or they might commence Bullying You more desirable - declaring Stuff Like "She Thinks Shes All That as well!" do not difficulty your self, they are All Jealous. Make another friends, And basically ignore Them. in the journey that they Pursue The Calling Names basically Ask Them "What Have I Ever done To You?"

Answer 8

Black hair and green eyes? You're probably GEORGOUS!!! They're jealous. Sounds like it. Don't let them get to you because that's what they want. I've found the best way to deal with these kind of people is just to laugh in their face, or if you're too nice for that just play it off like a joke.

Hope I'm helpful...I really don't like my hair/eyes. I'm boring--dirty blonde hair and hazel eyes. (My avatar says otherwise...haha) I would be jealous of someone with your eyes/hair.

Answer 9

wow that really sux! these girls are serious loosers!..well try putting your hair for a little while..like a week or so...but you shouldnt really care whta they say..from teh looks of it..they are LOOSERS! and if they make a comment ask them what the hell they want from you? and then ask them why your problem is a part of theirs? So what im saying is basically tell them to fu ck off! there probably jelous how your hair is so perfect ..i know id be :)

Answer 10

Ignore them when they talk bad about you. If you like your hair the way it is then keep it. It may be that they are just jealous or want you to change to their style so they feel better about themselves.