Once again..?

Question

well my bf and i had a really big (stupid) fight before he left on a skiing trip with some friends. i went to his work to tell him goodbye but he ignored me so i just left. he called me that night saying sorry and i pretty much said whatever and hung up. then he called me in the morning before he left and told me that he had no minutes on his phone and asked me to please call him when i got off work. well i called him and he didnt answer. and he texted me from a friends phone and said he missed me and to please call him. well i havent called him because im still kind of mad at him. he'll be home in 3 days. and i REALLY want to call him but im not. im not sure why.. i guess i just want him to miss me. i know it sounds dumb. but today was our one year anniversary (dating wise) and im kind of mad he missed it to go skiing.
should i just call him?

OK I CALLED HIM. AND HIS PHONE WAS TURNED OFF.
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. MAYBE HE TURNED HIS PHONE OFF BC I HAVENT CALLED HIM IN 4 DAYS?? I DONT KNOW..
IM SCARED IM GOING TO LOSE HIM

Answer 1

Everything will be ok, calm down..just a missunderstanding, try ringing him again later.

Answer 2

Quit playing games. If you want to talk to him talk to him. You have already said that you were fighting over something really dumb. He could of very simply planned the trip and forgot about your anniversary. Guys have a tendency to forget what we think are important things. Call him/see him when he gets back and lay it on the table as far as how you feel and then take it from there.

Answer 3

Sounds like he loves you very much and you just need to calm down .......take in a deep breath . o.k. he is on a ski trip with his friends and probably out having a good time with the guys , and talking about you . He did try to talk to you and you didnt want to because you wanted him to miss you , dont play games- they never work and only really make things worse . good luck

Answer 4

He told you he had NO minutes left. This is why he turned it off...duuuuhhhhh
Call him!!! He did call you from a friend's phone to tell you to call him back. People just don't sit by the phone every second and wait for it to ring. How was he to know when you would call. He is allowed to eat, shower, etc. while waiting, Isn't he?

Answer 5

Instead of ignoring each other when you have a fight, maybe you guys should talk it out? If there's no give and take, it'll leave you wondering what the heck is going on with your relationship

Answer 6

girl if he really loves you when he gets home he will call you, and maybe even go see you. don't sweat it guys do stupid things like that but if he truly cares about you calling is not going to make you guys break up. talk it ouver and work it out when he gets back.

Answer 7

I've been in that kind of situation with a chick, and believe me, she used me big time. If I were you, I would separate for a while and see if he finds someone else. Be careful!! Good luck!!

Answer 8

Ok, let's see if you can't get in touch with his friend....the one that he texted you earlier......then maybe you can find out where he's at.....there must be a phone number to that place somewhere. Don't panic......best of luck to you.

Answer 9

You can't lose him, you never had him , he's behaving too puerile. I think you should look further, he cant make up his mind, its not a good foundation to build a relationship on.

Answer 10

you guys are in a circle, one of you ned to break it or your relationship will end up going no where but lost time