so i have been on and off for about 6 months with this guy, he gets angry if i go out with another guy and treats us as if we are serious but yesterday we had the talk and he said I was getting too deep and we cant see or speak to eachother any more and i have been crushed. then last night he got drunk and called me saying he missed me but then today called saying he wanats everything back and as if we broke up. I cried way too much today help:(
2007-01-14 09:27:06 · 30 answers · asked by canthearu12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know all the details however based on what you said run the hell away from him because you will keep on getting hurt. There is no simple answer to relationships everyone is different (that's why i cant stand Dr. Phil and the others who pretend like there is an out of the box solution that fits everybody) And in regard to feeling bad and crying all I can say is when I broke Up with my girl friend the way I dealt with it is by just knowing that with time I will get better as some many people have broken up from much more intimate relationships then me and they got by even if at the moment it don't seem like that Another Important thing is you must make your decision and follow trough on it meaning if its to break up let go if not you will pro long the pain Good luck
2007-01-14 09:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by Auther S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
- Since you two are only dating and not in a relationship he really can’t say anything about you going out with other guys.
- Breaking if off more then once with in 6months is not a good sign.
- Drunk was he? You can bet he was calling because he was lonely, horny, feeling bad and just needed someone to talk to
My suggestion – break it off and move on. Who knows, maybe somewhere down the road when he figures out what he wants your paths will cross again. Being single and dating really sucks, Hang in there , you'll be okay.
2007-01-14 09:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by asgrafxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to accept that it's over. You've only been together for 6 months. And it was on and off. You'll be okay. Wait until you meet someone that really loves you and the two of you get along well and have lots to talk about and lots in common.
2007-01-14 09:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. If you have to cry for a week straight it will still be better than staying with him, having him treat you like crap some more, and then having a worse breakup later.
An intimate relationship without emotions is not an intimate relationship at all. Get out of there.
2007-01-14 09:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by d.anconia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl dump him! He sounds like he's just stringing you along for a booty call...that's why he gets jealous if other dudes come in to the picture and he has enough balls to call you late at night cause he's been drinking. Lame! You're better than that :)
Oh and this quote may sound really cheesy, but it totally fits your situation: Don't cry over somebody that won't cry over you. Can't remember where I saw it, but it kinda puts things into perspective.
2007-01-14 09:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by obliviona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be so blunt, but do you need to be whacked in the face with a 2x4? Well, he did that to you. I'm sorry that he wasted 6 months of your life, but don't waste any more. Don't even talk to this guy again.
2007-01-14 09:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 01:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I can tell you are way too good for someone like him. You need to find someone that loves you and wont be off and on with you.
2007-01-14 09:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Katie♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. Get out of this relationship. It's too much stress on you, and it will only lead to more if you stay in it.
E-mail me to let me know how it goes, or just to talk more.
2007-01-14 09:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by bisous148 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres a lot of imaturity going aronud your relationship. It is best to just move forword in life.
2007-01-14 09:34:34 · answer #10 · answered by wish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋