Women claim that they want men who are confident, healthy, intelligent, hard-working, romantic, honest, and appreciative. Those same women intentionally date and marry men who are the exact opposite. Then they have the nerve to feel sorry for themselves, even though they are 100% to blame for their own choices.
Why is this?
2007-01-14 09:03:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nice shot. True too.
2007-01-14 09:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I have this exact same conversation with a friend of mine (guy), who has the same opinion. Some woman are like what you describe, however alot of women aren't. My friend who is a nice guy has women interested in him, however he's not interested in them for one reason or another but yet still says that women don't want him because he's nice? I think nice guys are sometimes blind to the women who are interested in them. The same thing happens with women as well. So don't think that men are the only one who goes through this.
2007-01-14 09:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most women don't enjoy being a martyr but it turns out that way. Some of them may have some past issues that lead them to believe they deserve to be treated badly and some have higher esteem and do truly want good men. But sometimes it takes kissing some frogs to find and appreciate a prince.So if you are truly a prince, you will be patient and wait for your princess to find you.
2007-01-14 09:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get the chip off your shoulder buddy,
So you have had a bad relationship don't think for one second that all women are like that because they are not!!!
You are the one feeling sorry for yourself, and you are more than likely hurting but if you stick with this mindset you will make yourself more UNhappy and worst case scenario live and lead an un-for filled life, and that would be really sad for you.
Not all relationships reach the heights that's are first anticipated, learn from that and be great full you are not in an UN-happy relationship, because the other party are only 50% to blame for the out-come...
You have some accountability ( whether you like it or not) in your life to..
And on the other hand if I'm right off the money with my assumption, (but we both know I'm not!) don't listen to hearts and flower's story's from other guy's.
There is always another side to the equation..
hope things work out for you buddy.
2007-01-14 09:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
because some women like to play hard to get. Those things are what every women wants in a man, but very little find them. Most of them find the opposite, fall in love with them and marry them. Then they realize their mistake.
2007-01-14 09:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by ☼♫☆☺♡♥☺☆♫☼ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think it is more that those men pretend to be that way until they get what they are after. Please don't tell me you have never heard men laughing all the time about how they pretend to listen and be romantic in the beginning, but they are really just looking for a new Mommy to look after them. Very few men really are good men, some women have them, or so I have heard, but they are a rare specimen.
2007-01-14 09:08:37 · answer #6 · answered by crct2004 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
likely for an same reason that men placed up a pretend facade to get laid and then even as they are married they grow to be mendacity machines. Then they have the nerve to sense indignant that their females do not believe them anymore, even notwithstanding the lads are one hundred% to blame for his or her own options. that is only a theory, very similar on your martyr's theory.
2016-10-31 02:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you like someone who says she likes romantic, honest and appreciative guys (which is what you are) but she's going out with a complete a** hole. Right?
I have had those moments where I go out with a guy who is the opposite of what I like but the heart wants what it wants. Hang in there dude!
2007-01-14 09:07:51 · answer #8 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because many women falsely believe they can mold their men. Then they find out later that they can't and realize "what you see is what you get" and they are disappointed. Society and culture really give women a lot of silly and dreamy ideas.
2007-01-14 09:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by americansneedtowakeup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mike
Don't believe people who say you are the one with the problem or most women aren't like that. Most men and probably most women too know that you are right about this. It's perverted of women but in their stupid heads heartache is beautiful. They think that enduring suffering is romantic.
Paul
2007-01-14 09:09:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
That is what we have been trained to do. We have the natural instinct to be caretakers and try to fix problems. The ones without problems aren't any fun to change. We like them but they are not what we are looking for.
2007-01-14 09:10:15 · answer #11 · answered by Sandra C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋