im on a long distance relationship nd i do love the guy. not long time ago i called him nd heard a woman crying nd stuff, i also heard people screaming... when he came back on the phone, i asked him what was going on, nd he said me he will tell l8ter. nd the nxt day he started acting strange. when we talk on the phone it not the same anymore, when we talked on the phon his mind is not there. when i ask him what'wrong he just says noting, but i know something is wrong, i know something happened, but he doesn't wnt to talk bout it. whenever something happens he never wnts to talk bout it. but when it comes to me he will tease me until i tell him. i don't know what to do or what to say to him and im getting depressed and scared for him every day.
and also be4 that happened, 1 day i was feeling really down nd didin't wnt 2 talk, nd he ask me did we break up?? that really mde me upset. Y did he asked me this? nd y is he acting so strange??
2007-01-14 09:01:39 · 15 answers · asked by naneya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, I think it's over. I had a guy start to act strange like that one time, and a week or two later, I met his other girlfriend.
Even if there isn't another girl, when a guy expects to know everything about you, but he won't talk about himself, that's just not a healthy relationship.
Feel free to e-mail me and let me know how it goes.
2007-01-14 09:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by bisous148 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd hate to say it but things do not sound good. I know you like the guy but you have to respect yourself and ask whether it's fair that he is always acting so unattached (or something to that effect). When a man starts acting a bit disinterested... it is a bad sign. When a guy is censoring what he is telling you... that is a bad sign.
If there is something that is bothering you then you should demand an answer from him because if he didn't do anything wrong then he has nothing to hide. You sound young (no offense) and things can be hard when you're young but always respect yourself and your dignity and people will treat you well.
Sorry but it is my opinion that you should brace yourself because you seem to be in the beginning of the end.
BTW I am a guy in case you were wondering.
2007-01-14 17:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by d.anconia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sigh, becuase we men (and some women to be fair) are really pigs and why would a man give up two women he has on a string and leave himself with only one?
Now the question really is, do you want to be one of his two or find a man who wants you alone?
ps, he is a fool, you sound like a really nice person.
2007-01-14 17:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may love him, but this is not a real relationship. In a real relationship there is trust and communication. Move on and try to meet someone that you can really talk to and touch.
2007-01-14 17:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my past experience long distance relationships never works. I don't know why! but they just don't! he is throwing you settle hints that he is doing what he is don't yea it's over. I'm not trying to be harsh but he is basically telling you that's what he want. Sorry
2007-01-22 16:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i have to say is in a recent survey 90 percent of women said if their boyfreind was cheating on them, they didnt want to know.
im not quite sure what happeend because im not in your relationship, but you should seriously be careful and be alert of what hes doing.
2007-01-14 17:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by carly m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe something happened, if he promised to tell you what happened later and he didnt, ask him what happened that day and tell him he promised to tell you later and see whats up
but LDR dont really work and im not very supportive of them, so id try to just get out of it
2007-01-14 17:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time with this dude it's over and you know it. Believe me you are not losing a thing.
2007-01-22 14:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by andyt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
staying with cheaters is how people spread plague.
leave the dog
and if he is not cheating that leave because the relationship has changed and you can't trust him
2007-01-14 17:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think is over bc long distance relationship doesn't work
2007-01-14 17:04:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋