Im jealous of this girl that my boyfriend talks to and flirts with .. i trust him not her what should i do?

Question

people say that she has nothing on me that hes with me because he really likes me.. i feel that hes truely with me because hes into me andif he wasnt he could have her... i trust him completely but not her shes got like 8 guys shes going after and shes made out with 4 of them whats ganna stop her from trying to take my boyfriend. she flirts with him all the time.. and he flirts back ive talked to him about it and he said theres nothing there and to trust him ... i do but i dont like her at all. how can i get him to stop flirting with her and trying to include her in everything we do sometimes i feel like hes more into her than me... its not like they have been friends forever it just started like 2 months ago... how do i make him realize that this is not right...

Answer 1

Guys are REALLY out to lunch when it comes to women, flirting, and other women's reactions to it. It bothers you, and he seems to be discounting your feelings by telling you have no reason to feel that way. He's not understanding that by him choosing to treat this woman the way he does, it is CAUSING you to DOUBT his intentions! In other words, I WOULD TRUST YOU IF YOU WERE NOT ACTING UN TRUSTFUL! Women will flirt only as much as they are allowed to. Your boyfriend allows her to flirt AND encourages it by having her hang out. If I were you, I would tell BOTH of these inconsiderate selfish morons AT THE SAME TIME that "HEY! I DO NOT LIKE THIS FLIRTY CRAP GOING ON BETWEEN YOU TWO SO PLEASE KNOCK IT OFF!" If it doesn't stop, find some more respectable friends to hang out with.

Answer 2

Continuing this type of behavior will only push him away. I think that although you say you trust him in reality you are very insecure (don't be if he's still with you then you must be doing something right). Stop getting so jealous you are defiantly being clingy, and that's not cool. Always remember if things are meant to be then they'll happen if not oh well he wont be your first or your last boyfriend, but if you continue like this (and your barely in 7 months) then your relationship is going to hit rock bottom before you know it. I have a bf and just know when i get clingy he gets irritated, I've been with him for 3 yrs now and from experience playing cool even when your jealous is better than going crazy every time he talks to a girl. The world is filled with women and no matter what he is always going to have to interact with them, so you might as well get used to it, and if you truly trust him then back off you obviously have nothing to worry about, Right?

Answer 3

I would tell your b/f out of respect for you, that he should back off from the flirting with her, as harmless as it may be. There is no need for him to do stuff like that, in front of you. However, if he continues then I would give him some space and tell him that because you disrespected him, you need some time to think about things. Then you want to take a look at your relationship? How important is it?How much does your relationship mean to him? To you? If you are secure with yourself, and your relationship, then you truly have nothing to worry about. I hope things work out. It all sounds like this girl just needs to back off and you guys have to let her know that! Maybe even speak with her, together. Good luck!

Answer 4

first off if u have showed your concern to him about u not feeling comfortable about the situation with her and he continues to bring her around etc, then the problem is him....something acn only happen if he allows it too.The flirting is wrong, he has a girlfriend and they're supposed to be friends so I dont understand that at all.U cant get a man to stop doing something unless they want to, he needs to figure out what's more important her or his relationship with u....his woman shouldn't have to feel like this over a new friend he needs to put her in check and let her know or he needs to suffer the consequences.(unless he's one of those 8 guys and he wants to be).

Answer 5

Trust me men see right through that game. Just keep believing and trusting in him. If he deserves you he will do the right thing. In life you can't control some things and this is one of them. Men want to feel trusted and respected. If you do that and be the best girl to him you can he will stay by your side. If he doesn't he will defiantly miss what he gave up. She is insecure and looks for the wrong kind of attention to fill her void. She probably is not treating men very well or she would have one herself.

Answer 6

Tell him that the flirting has to stop now or you are going to dump him and he can have her.But you have to mean it when you say it.If he really is into you he will stop ifnot he wasn't for you anyways.If you guys are together he shouldn't be "flirting" with anyone .Sounds like he is a player and has alot of growing up to do.

Answer 7

Why would your b/f be flirting with someone beside you in the first place? Let him know how uncomfortable you are about this. If he is any kind of b/f he will stop! Good Luck

Answer 8

50 percent chance he cheats on you
your fighting a up hill fight, lust gets the best of people. All i can say is good luck, sad situation but bob has seen this before.

Bob could recomend beating that bitches *** down to ease the pain.

Answer 9

Talk to him, let him know what you're thinking. Guys just don't get it sometimes...he talks to her and that's probably it, they don't see the same problem that you do. I suggest talking to this girl to.

Answer 10

talk to her and tell her to back off your man that or tell your bf that if he really loved you he wouldnt treat you like that or even think of other girls.