2007-01-14 08:57:57 · 9 answers · asked by hiphopstar167 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends. If you're under 18 and living at home, you have to do what your parents say. Right or wrong, it's their house and you'll be out on your own soon enough.
It's like when I got my first real job, the person training me said "even if you think I'm doing it wrong, learn it my way and then you can always change it later on." Learn life your parents' way and then you can change it after you move out if it's so bad.
If you're grown up and on your own, which I doubt because of the annoying abbreviations, then don't share details of your relationship. then when they criticise, you can honestly tell them they don't know what they're talking about.
2007-01-14 09:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you mean. If they are just voicing opinions, listen and do with it what you need. If they are concerned for your well being, you might want to check out why. If you are over 18, say "I appreciate your concern but I'm good." If you are under 18, try not to get too mad or defensive - acknowledge and move on.
2007-01-14 09:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are over 18, then tell them that it is absolutely none of their business, unless of course you live at home. Then, you pretty much have to put up with them.. And in the mean time, don't give them information about your relationships, unless of course they withhold food and water until you talk!!!
2007-01-14 09:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by rainbowgypzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell them that I am a smart women that they have raised well and that I am fully capable of making my love life decisions on my own. They should trust me and my decisions and that everything will work out the way it needs to be in the end.
2007-01-14 09:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Princess ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if somebody is spying, they are really saying I paid my admission now give me a show, the richer they are, the more admission they paid, give em a show, then add details of cannibalism and things like that, they will have to pay spies to find out the real truth, also like that night with 2 men and also the one with 3 women. They will have to pay til they find out the truth, even though you woulda just told them for free.
2007-01-14 09:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's One Of those things you just have to be blunt but nice. Tell them you are glad they care so much about you but this is one of those things you have to deal with on your own but if you ever Need there help or advice you will let them know.That is your parents job to worry about you.I'm sure they are only doing it out of love.Good Luck!
2007-01-14 09:01:57 · answer #6 · answered by amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep an ear open. Boys will come and go, but you are stuck with your family forever! Remember that.
2007-01-14 09:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop telling them about your relationship and kindly ask them to stay out of your business, you are your own person.
2007-01-14 09:03:47 · answer #8 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to stand up to them. Firmly tell them that it's your life and to let you live it. Tell them they don't have to agree with your decisions,and they can keep their opinions to themselves. Tell them you don't tell them how to live their lives, so you expect the same courtesy.I hope this helps.
2007-01-14 09:05:19 · answer #9 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋