Alrighty, so. There's this guy. I have liked him for a while now. We talk alot online and such [he usually always IMs me]. We've also hung out quite alot. For New years he had a party and asked if I would go as his date.. of course I said yes. And last week he asked me to be his date for the social. All his friends say that he likes me, but I still have no clue.
Sometimes I just feel like he's being nice. Probably due to the fact that he knows I like him. But anyways... Last night at one of our b-ball games.. he was sitting with another girl, who, I am pretty sure goes to a completely diffrent school. They were chatting and stuff, so I'm just guessing that he knew her. She was super super pretty.. so I was jealous lol. And then after the game he walked out with her. But then later that night was the social. We went together and we had a great time, but I still just don't know if he likes me.. or just wants to be friends..
2007-01-14 08:57:07 · 6 answers · asked by KittyCashMash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you're better off asking him directly.
There's no shame, and you want to know where you stand not to make a fool of yourself or spoil your friendship.
To me, he does sound like it's YOU that he likes, but don't take my word for it, ask HIM.
good luck.xx
2007-01-14 09:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2007-01-16 04:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is ask him outright if he just wants to be friends or does he want more? At least you will know where you stand. As he knows you like him so much, dont give him the power to use you........ boys are idiots most of the time, you need to be one step ahead of him......trust me!
2007-01-14 17:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by RACHEL W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he does like you otherwise he wouldnt have asked you out twice. Why not try talking to him, ask him if he does like you and find out where you stand with this guy. Try not to be jealous, you don't know who this other girl is, until you find out the facts don't be too worried.
2007-01-14 19:42:38 · answer #4 · answered by jadey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you, according to what he does. Talking to other girls more makes him feel more sexually secure, cuz they obviously talk back. However the one he ⥠is u. i mean, most guys don't get nervous when talking to a girl!
You should talk to him more before u tell him u like him. Why?
cuz if someone u didn't really know asked u out wouldn't that be awkward? so talk to him more! and bc he likes you , there is nothing to lose.
good luck!!!
2007-01-14 19:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
who knows... boys at this age are dumb. And the bad news is they only get dumber...
waitin on someone who can answer the question..
2007-01-14 17:05:27 · answer #6 · answered by Chimera's Song 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋